I broke up with someone and pretty soon after the break up i realised i was in love with her the whole time but things just got a little mundane.... I told her about this uncertainty and obviously it turned her poor world upside down as well as mine. She now knows how i feel and says that i have proved that i love love her but is very happy on her own at the moment. Can time heal her wound and bring her back to me?
2006-12-05 21:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it is.
Time will heal her wound, but in order for her to come back to you, I think you need to adopt 'the less is more' approach.
What I mean by that is stay in regular contact with her, but dont pressure her. Give her some time & space to think about what she wants. Treat her like a friend.
If you keep contacting her, asking her if she wants to get back with you, you will drive her away for good!
I can't say that this will have a happy ending, but maybe with some patience & understanding on your part it might.
2006-12-05 21:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is enjoying the single life. Its a whole new world out there, you know?! It will be a new experience for her, but that doesn't mean she doesn't care about you.
You were the one who broke up with the girl, so maybe she is being single for herself. You know the "I need to find myself" again. Maybe coz you broke up because things were mundane, she is finding some excitement and wants to explore it on her own for a bit.
Only the girl knows and if she doesn't want to tell you what her plans are, then you, my dear, will never know.
I would go out and find the excitement you were missing out on. In time, if it was meant to be, you will get back together, if not, its a lesson learnt my friend! It takes two people to let a relationship lose its sparkle, next time do something constructive about it rather than call it a day and let her go. You never know what you have got til its gone is sooooo true! x
2006-12-05 21:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably needs a little time herself and also wants to make sure that you really know exactly how you really feel about her, why don't you just start dating her again, like go back to the beginning, ring and ask if she wants to go to the cinema or for meal, take it slowly and let her know you are not rushing her but just enjoying being with her.
2006-12-05 22:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by ffiondove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes deffinately time can heal but not sure if she will go back to you,time will tell! but the idea is if you do leave her alone completly,she might start missing you and wants you back, who knows?
2006-12-05 21:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by lisagoldi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is man, takes sumthing to be taken away from you before you really find out just how you feel about it/them.
2006-12-05 21:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made it clear to her when you finished it...she knows the score now so if she got back with you i don't think she would be 100% happy because she knew how you felt first time round...it can be offputting....that's why she chooses to be single....
2006-12-05 21:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not since she has realised that she's better off on her own.
2006-12-05 21:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried flowers?
2006-12-05 21:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋