i just befriended this girl at college...she and her friend. it takes some time for me to get comfortable with anyone ok. she is of a different class...we used to meet and talk in the lunch break. what i noticed was she wasnt much interested in talking to me when i was facing her and talking to her. i felt she is not responsive...she just stands there cool and expects me to start the conversation and doesnt talk much. and when we're far away from each other..like when i'm eating and she's on a different table...she keeps looking at me and smiles as if to say hi. seemed to me that she really wants to talk to me...but when i go to her...she's so cold...what should i think of this??
2006-12-05 21:08:13 · 21 answers · asked by drno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there,
It's very simple she like you but is shy to talk to you.. You can just play cool, keep the talking and see how it works...plus you haven't mentioned anywhere that you like her so even if she ignores you or does not talk to you dont bother its her loss is'nt it. But in case you like her than keep up then conversation and than maybe one day just ask her out and see how she reacts.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-05 21:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude!!
there are many answers to this...
One thing is that the girl is too shy for now that she knows u really like her,It may take sum time to get over that
She could also not be talkin to ya as she might be shy as to wat other people would think if they knew that u liked her...this takes sum time to get over for the female ...beleive me.
She could have a small likin for sum other guy too but also wan't u at the same time..
The best thing is to be bold and go talk to her freely and make her feel comfy and let her know that she'z real special to ya.
2006-12-06 05:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by subinrulz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she knows the tricks of the trade..when she comes near you, don't give attention, you act cold, when she is smiling far from the table, give a smile...next time she will have to search for another technique..what she does, you keep writing i will suggest you another move if she does not start following you, but i think this much will work... this is called mirror technique.
2006-12-06 05:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by swami04 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think she is rele like u but may b she is expecting 2 ve some1 else,or may b she is in love with some1 who doesnt lov her.
u know i ll advise 2 try this plane 4 3 days only dont talk 2 her & pretend that u r sad or sth then if she is interrested in u she ll com 2 ask about wat is hapening with u! just try it dear 3 days or less if u like.
2006-12-06 05:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by lona hamedo z lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a number of girls expect boys to approach them with his feelings so maybe she must be feeling the same
2006-12-06 05:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by frandy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, your case is better than mine.
I smiled at her & she smiled.
I cracked a joke & she smiled.
I talked to her & she smiled.
I asked her out & she smiled.
I took her for a date & she smiled.
I proposed her & she smiled.
I married her & she smiled.
I made love to her & she smiled.
Oh! now I realised she is mentaly retarted.
Sorry all gals, this was just a joke to make our friend laugh.
2006-12-06 05:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Chosen One 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She hates ur presence
sorry dude she doesnt like u!!
2006-12-06 08:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by devil_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man just go and say I LOVE U , and then if she says yes then its ok and no then also its fine. because ; girls are like buses and trains . If one goes second comes if second goes third come and so on.................... this is how life goes sweet heart.
2006-12-06 05:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by rohit kumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can conclude she's not really interested in u that way,but does not even want to lose u.may be she's just like this and u'd better let ur relationship go like this only.
2006-12-06 05:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by girija j 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god. She sounds shy... maybe she lurrrvs you, i don't know.
Just play cool and see how it goes. try txting her, ask wot her hobbies are get talking and stuff.
gud luk !
2006-12-06 05:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋