hi guys,
I am new to this forum. My love matter may be a common one but beleive me its shocking. I had been in love relation with a my ex-girlfriend. I just had a break-up. I am from australia. We were about to marry in next 6 months. That girl friend had her ex-boyfriend at her country with whom she wasnt in contact when she was in australia ( with me) and i knew that for sure. We both were very faithful and caring to eachother. She went to her country for 1 month for holidays in this decmeber and after 1 week she called me and told : I got married. i was shocked , i didnt expected that. Before she went to her country she promised me with real tears that she wont get married and she wont leave me and she will tell about me to her parents. On the contrary she married to her ex-boyfriend and even she didnt tell her parents a single thing about me. i was pissed off.. i was so faithful to her. and she cheated me and she broke my pure heart and made fun of my true love.
2006-12-05 20:52:23 · 8 answers · asked by samirpurohit2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all how do you know she has used you and married him not bcoz of some serious problem.. you must look for reason first.. if you are intelligent enought you will find out..
2nd. if you really love her than let go of her thinking that atleast she is happy.. and that is more important than anything.
3rd is that maybe her ex boyfriend is her true love and there maybe some problem between them when she left him and come to you. and in those days she must be fragile. you have comfirted her and she began to think that you are her saviour. But when she got her ex again.. the old love came back and trust me on this buddy.. love doesnt let a person understand the difference of right and wrong.
I think you should forgive her. that will ease your heart.. and know this that a person who breaks a heart can never have a easy heart. so you should also pray for her that GOD save her heart too.. bcoz bet you dont want her to cry bitterly..
2006-12-05 21:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by usman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl betrayed you, but maybe she was lying to you all the time. Sometimes girls/guys go to a foreign country, meet someone, and have a short romance with them. It is like they want to have some thing to share with their friends back home. Or they want a last fling, before they get married.
You were in love with her, I'm sure. But you need to face the facts about her. It is over for the two of you. I don't think she will divorce her husband for you, unless she is going through some major problems. Do you really want a girl like this? Love does hurt some times. We all must learn from the experiences we go through. Morn over her for a while, then move on to greener pastures.
You seem like a good person, really there are great girls around. You just need to look for them.
2006-12-06 05:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just move on. since she wasnt honest to u... then why wasting time on someone who is not appreciating u?? love is everywhere. move on n start haunting for it. im sure ur a guy with a heart of roses n a soul of an angle. there must be better gils out there who accept n appreciate u for what u are. maybe both of u just not meant to be together. or maybe she really do love u but she is forced to marry her ex.. whatever it is, she is no longer for u n the best thing u shuld do now is move on.
2006-12-06 04:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely sucks when someone puts you in a bad emotional state. Try and find something that make you happy to get you r mind off of it. Don't worry man there is someone for everybody.
2006-12-06 04:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE GRIEVING! Find out about the steps of grieving, and experience all of them, and heal and move on. Best of luck.
By the way, it happens to all of us and is a normal part of life. Yeah, I know it hurt real bad. The pain will fade, though.
2006-12-06 04:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you brother. It hurts when you fall in love and she cheats (more like betrayal). But life goes on and you have two options: one: never trust a woman again and just have fund or two: do it over and risk your heart being broken again.
I have chosen one over two you know. That's just me. I don't even date at all so never get hurt.
2006-12-06 04:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will help u dear.. She was not meant to be urs. U will meet someone with time
2006-12-06 05:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat girl was a cheater, forget about her
2006-12-06 04:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋