Well guys this is what happened i broke up with my boyfriend like 5mths.last week i went to this club with some friends of mine and i was in the bathroom when this girl comes up to me and was actually hitting on me, i did't know what to do .She was asking questions not trying to touch me or anything ,but i could see then i asked her what is it you want from me and she leaned over and brushed her lips on mine i pushed her away and walked out, but she has called me she got my number from the guy i was with cuz he knows her.Now i picked the call and in a way it crosses my mind.I have never ever been attracted to women never had any thing like that in my mind,but in this case am actually thinking about it and not in a bad way i mean not how i would excpect my self to.i just want your advise is there anything happeneing to me or am i paranoid.What should i do.And she has been calling not stressing just to find out how i am.I can't understand why i am even picking the calls.pls no insultes.
2006-12-05 20:52:10 · 18 answers · asked by shiva 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone can tell it is natural. but homosexual works are not good. pls dont do anything like that. it will be trouble in future. so try to convert ur mind on other things. pls don't do anything badly. talke care of ur self.
2006-12-05 22:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by karan v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It maybe fives months ago, but are you really over your boyfriend? Why did you break up with your boyfriend?
It could well be that sub consciously you are still hurting, & this girl has come along out of the blue, & now suddenly you are feeling something inside that you've not experienced before. It doesn't matter whether it is a girl or boy, you feel good about yourself, someone has found you attractive. You've got a spring in your step & life is good. This maybe just what you needed.
I don't see a problem here. I think it is something you need to explore to satisfy your own curoisty. It may go somewhere you had never comtemplated before, or nothing may come of it. Unless you make the effort to find out you'll never know?
The worst that could happen is you may of found a friend, someone you would always be grateful to, for making you realize it is time to move on with your life.
2006-12-05 21:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're curious cos its been offered on a plate to you. You just gotta ask yourself, d'u find yourself thinking about the same sex in an intimate way on more occasions or is it just cos this person cornered you in the loos and offered you something that youve never experienced before. If you are comfortable with this person and the way they make you feel is nice then why not experiment, you are single and will not be hurting anyone.
2006-12-05 21:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by gemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a lot of girls (maybe even guys!!) get feelings like that at some point. I think its a kind of fasination. you want to know how it feels to be with another woman!! there is nothing wrong with the way you feel and maybe you should experiment with it? thats the only way that you will find out if you are attracted to her because of a fascination or if its because you have feeling for her.
2006-12-05 20:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' homosexual feelings are perfectly natural. I was going to have NSA sex with some guy, backing out at the last minute, Guess I was scared of how I would feel about myself afterwards. Just go for It, see where it leads. You could be turning your nose up at happiness if you ignore you apparent feelings. You must remember though that your life will be changed forever and are you prepared for change?
2006-12-05 20:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're probably just been put in a situation that you've never been in before - if you're curious and feel that you want to experiment then go for it - no one will have to know - explain to her that you're not actually gay - but you are curious and if shes ok with that and wont have any further expectations of something happening once she knows you're experimenting then theres no harm done! Good luck! xx
2006-12-05 21:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feeling you have right now is kinda like how does it feel like being with a girl, coz' you havent tried it before.. your gonna keep on thinking about it till the day you actully do it.. you gotta decide if you wanna do it or not coz' you just gonna go crazy.. you might like it or you might not.. youll never know till you do it..
2006-12-05 21:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Peep STyLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is most unusual but thing 2 do is 2 listen 2 urself. i dnt think theres anythin wrong wth u its probably cuz she thinks now that ur single now she has a chance
2006-12-05 20:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tekken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are perfectly normal. dont be afraid.
if you ask me what you should do..then i tell you to ask yourself. i cant answer it for you. what do you want ? it's alright to be attracted to a woman. but if you decided that you dont want to be attracted by a woman, you have to clear things up. tell your girlfriend. be an straight forward person, so people dont miss understand.
so it's all comes back to you. what do you want ? ask that, and do what you have to do.
2006-12-05 20:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by the_justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey go for it girl it may be just what you have been looking for in life, and if its not what have you lost? but you would of gained a great experience from it and you will know for sure where your going in life
good luck.
2006-12-05 23:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋