I have been in a lot of heat recently and have doing sexual things with the opposite sex. Tonight I was hooking up with this guy and he wanted to have sex with me and I started giving him oral he kept mentioning he wanted to have sex but he also mentioned that he never ejaculated from receving oral sex. I became obsessed with being the first girl to do that so I continued doing it until I made sure he ejaculated. Aftwards he wanted to go to sleep and I expected him to have sex with me. He refused and said he was really tired and had to go to work in a few hours even though he really sounded interested in sex earlier that night. Should I feel regected?
2006-12-05 20:41:38 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um
You sucked this guy off as a "hook up", you dont seem to have any self respect. Hookers do that. Yes you are rejected.
Is it just me or are half the YA questions by females revealing them to be promiscuous?
This is rediculous.
2006-12-05 20:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
This one could go either way. First, let's take the positive approach. After ejaculation, all guys have an increase in hormone levels that are inducive to sleep. After a long day, and a very special sexual event, he was probably just dead tired. Worth a second try; then you'll know. Don't dwell on it. If you stay together, you can teach him some manners. If he doesn't learn them, then move on to a better match.
A little more cynical. This guy is selfish and a user he doesn't really give a crap about you, your needs, or your feelings. He got what he wanted and he's done. This guy does not stand a chance of being a good mate or lover in the long run. Speaking of running, that's what you want to do with a guy like this; run, run away, very fast, run!
2006-12-05 20:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There aren't too many guys who can have sex after ejaculating. It's the same with women too. There aren't too r women who can have sex again after having an orgasm. I'm sure he still wanted to have sex, but physically it was impossible for to make another run at you. You must be really good at oral!
2006-12-05 20:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
One rule i have in life is never have oral sex to the point of ejaculation cause u will always miss out
2006-12-05 20:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he is a loser... Least he could do was return the favour until he was hard again, then ride you good and hard...
You need to find someone else and forget that jerk...
What other things are you in the mood for???
2006-12-05 20:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL Well sometimes its like that girl once they get off the turn around and go to sleep.My suggestion to you is to get off before you get him off if not you'll be disappointed.
2006-12-05 20:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your question is about "...men and their advice on sex" and then you don't ask any questions that pertain to men. you talk about your promiscuence and blame him for something you started. i am not a prude, but where i came from, a lady doesn't give oral on hookup unless she is a hooker.
2006-12-05 20:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it could happen of course. Having sex is tiring. You should have made him have sex with you first.
2006-12-05 20:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bhagwad 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope. He has low stamina. May be he can come once. Or may be you had sucked the hell out of him.
2006-12-05 20:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋