Its like usually am calling my gf coz, am earning and shes not. One day my phone went off, so she called me up. We had nice long chat, but now her father (knowing about our relation) asks her not to call me. She had called up more of her friends lot more times than what she called me up. he gave her a scolding coz of that. her exams are coming up, so yesterday night she was tensed up and talked to me to ease off the pressure at 11 at the night. Her father caught her. Although the situation is not bad, but we are scared that they might stop our talks.
Will such a thing happen? What should i do? Should i reduce calling her. Its been 6 hrs since i last talked to her, and now am restless to hear her voice.
already we live far away, and if our calls are banned, i dnt know how will i spend my days...
guys tell me what should we do??? talk or stop??
2006-12-05 20:39:38 · 11 answers · asked by AB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her father is my father's college mate. And her mother's brother, my father's best friend. Her father also likes me. thats y we are confused why this happened???
2006-12-05 20:46:38 · update #1
Hi AB baby,
U mentioned her exams are there right so obviously her father will be mad at you cause he might be feeling that because of you she is not concentrating on her studies. Just relax a bit will you. The next time she call up both of you decide that you both will talk less and that she should concentrate on her exams and get good grades or else her father will be blaming you for the rest of his life.
Backoff a little time being. Pass on msg to her through her friends. Even this is romantic. Write letters to her and give them to her friend and she can do vice versa this way you both can be intouch at the same time you are not visible and her heard about to her father which will be good for you. Plus you guys seem to be in your teens so just take a chill pill and relax. Life is beautiful.
Good Luck
2006-12-05 20:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should leave her alone until exams are over. you also need to tell her to not to stress about anything and focus on her own thing for now. maybe you could try and talk to ur gf's father and ask him questions like why he doesnt want you guys to talk, what he has against you and etc. if you do plan on talking to the father-- remember to be calm, honest and polite. if you really like ur gf then you should think abt her and respect her father. maybe the father's just a little overprotective of his daughter. i mean, that's normal but i think you should talk to him and see what can be worked out. good luck.
2006-12-05 20:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello
K. u know its exam time for her. and unless she know the questions in advance(which im sure she does not), its gonna be a gruelling time for her.
so y dont u simply hold your horses till the exams r over? In the mean time, if you r really serious about her, you could convince both, her and your dad, tat u wanna settle down and thus want this to work out. Gather max support for yor relationship.
and relax... you both could coochie-coo after the exams... ;-)
2006-12-05 21:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is only concerned about his daughters schooling being as though you r working cant u move closer to her. Do u visit her on the weekends if so back off at the moment it is exam time
2006-12-05 21:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o dear.. dont stop talking.. it always happens like that.. just pass your time.. you both will again be together .. trust me.. its my experience and i have always seen it..
dont worry about her father or any other..
just call less for the time being and everything will be fine very soon..
Just dont stop talking idiot.. its natural.
There are too many situations which are more bad than that but ppl never stop it..
2006-12-05 20:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by usman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't u chat on net with some excuse or the other,if someone comes suddenly,restore the screen down to the taskbar.try this.good luck!!!
2006-12-05 21:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by girija j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off for a bit.....then you can resume talking...but her dad wants to make sure that she keeps her grades up and that she does not get into trouble by spending all her time talking to you...give it time.....good luck
2006-12-05 20:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk and stop, stop and talk, what difference does it make?! it looks like you ain't getting any regardless of the other situation. As for your daily passtime, what's Yahoo Answers for??!!
2006-12-05 20:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is a student, let her study. Why one should spoil her academics for time pass.
2006-12-05 20:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
6 hours?
i dont think her father likes you much.
2006-12-05 20:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋