We going out last 8 months.we just kiss each othern hold each others hands.And when he asks for smooching i dont let him..If i dont let him smooch will he respect me more?
Or what shall i do?
But i afraid because i have heard from people that once a guy does all thi things before marriage he leaves that girl.
My bf isnt like that but still im scared.
I want him to have respect and love to stay for EVER
2006-12-05 20:38:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 19 and my guy is 23
2006-12-05 20:41:37 · update #1
YOU ARE QUITE RIGHT DO NOT ALLOW TILL MARRIAGE.
2006-12-09 05:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that the futher you go into a relationship sometimes it will strengthen the relationship, by developing a deeper bond of commitment. Smooching and Kissing are very simular and the harm of such a thing would be close to zero.
You gain respect from a man, through your love and honesty to him. If he doesn't respect you on those grounds. Than, all the smooch resistance won't help.
-I hope that helps
Sincerely, David
2006-12-05 20:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by David S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what u are doing is absolutely right and smooching is also not bad at all. if you both love each other than u can do smooching but remember don't go further until u get marry. cause indian boys do like only those girls who don't sleep before marriage, believer me no boy will agree to this but it's true, they respect those girls who don't have boyfriend's and who have never slept with anyone. so it's ur decision what to do and what not to do, do what you think is right.
2006-12-06 02:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a indian are you?
smooching is just kissing after all a way to express love.just because a man smooches dont you ever think he will leave you. and if he does throw him into the bin he is nothing but trash it wont take him long to ditch the next girl too.
smoochign is just normal and its a way to express love.and not allowing him do it cant result in two things first that he may respect you and secondly he may think you still havent got belief in him i tell you if the second thought comes into his mind be sure he will ditch you the next moment.
2006-12-05 20:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by soniya_deepthi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd suggest u first make sure whether ur bf is really in love with u and whether u think him to be trustworthy.get it clear from him if a smooch is all that he wants.get rid of all the fears u have in mind from him through a sweet talk and then......feel free to give him that most awaited smooch,u'll really feel great and enjoy.good luck!!!
2006-12-05 21:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by girija j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u mad smooching is ok making love to a certain extent is fine baby if u dont allow he will stray away from u after all he is ur love u shd trust him come on smooches are common these days u soo narrow minded
2006-12-05 20:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by nashaahot 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should stay at the level that you are on for now. When you refuse something like that, it shows the person that you respect yourself enough to say "No". That also shows charicture in my opinion.
When you say no, if it doesn't bother him, that's a very good thing. Also when you say "No" to kissing that tells him that he can't take things any farther then you want him to. That is also a good thing.
Hope everything works out for ya. Happy Holidays :)
2006-12-05 20:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will completely depend on the type of guy he is, and on the type of girl that you are. I get really turned off when a woman wants to stick to me like a leech.
You must have confidence in yourself, and only then will the man respect you. Kiss him if you want to, but make sure that he doesn't get the feeling that you're desperate or wanting to 'latch on' to him.
2006-12-05 20:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bhagwad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, just be yourself. if you dont want to be smooched, dont change it. if your boyfriend doesnt like you because of that, screw him, get another guy. there are still plenty guys in this world. in my opinion, when a guy truly loves a woman, he will have to accept anything that woman has. he has to accept the good and the bad.
2006-12-05 21:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by the_justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not about respect. It is about how much you like him. If girl refuses smooching I simply take it that she doesn't want me very much, in which case I just leave.
2006-12-05 20:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋