Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months... when we met there was no interest in a relationship,, just alot of flirting but after about 2 weeks of this things got more serious, and i had sex with him. We continued seeing each other ocassionally and we talked on the phone everyday.. after about a month i told him that i loved him... and he said that he loved me too but that he was confused, but that he wasn't " falling for me" yet it sadenned me but i continued with him... on the phone he would always say " i love YA" but not you.. so one day i had a discussion with him in person and asked him if he really loved me or not and what did he mean by " i love ya" he said that he really loves me.. and that he fell in love with me.. and that he could tell because of the way he would get jealous when i talk to other men... And sometimes he's told me that he loves me before i told him but i usually say it first, why? Does he really love me? if so.. why doesnt he say it often?
2006-12-05 20:38:29 · 8 answers · asked by LifeisCrazy. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We still have a very passionate sexual relationship as well.. and when were not together he tells me he misses me and a week without me is like forever for him. He's told me that he loves me first on many occasions but usually i have to say it first for him to say it back.
2006-12-05 20:41:19 · update #1
Answer No.
6 months should tell you that..
Also you opened your legs after only 2 weeks?
Where is the ring?
2006-12-05 20:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, dont be so dejected. Certain things takes time to develop and feelings and emotions build over time. If ur guy is not so sure give him some space and dont force him to accept which he may not be sure of. It does not matter whether u are emotionally involved or not but it should be reciprocated too and thats the start of a beautiful relationship. Cheer up. Dont worry. Give him time, if he feels the same way for you he will be more reciprocative. Some guys dont try to show their true feelings feeling that will make them vulnerable so they take time to open from their shell. In case u feel its you who is doing everything and being taken for a ride then my friendly advise would be to leave him behind and dont carry the baggage with you. Love is everywhere, u just need to find out; in case you are not able to do so it will find u. Stay assured and be cheerful.
2006-12-06 04:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by pradeesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love ya.. its just a slang.. or a way of saying i love you. its like.. some people say "wanna" insteas of want to. since he said he love u n get jealous when he see u talking to other men, its provn he loves u. but he said he is not falling for u?? i dont really understand that. maybe he was trying to tell u ur not romantic enough or ur sex could be better or maybe he mean he is not satisfied with the sex... ask him what did he mean by im not falling 4 u.
till then, i love ya is just a slang. :P
who says i love u 1st dosent really matter my dear. u should not make a fuss about it or he'll ditch u.
as long as he meant it its ok.
2006-12-06 04:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit with the i love u so much it only pushes the other one away i know cause my man says it all the time and i feel pressured into saying i do just to make him happy when he loves u, u will feel that love
2006-12-06 05:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he loves you though he doesn't say it often. Since your relationship is not more than six months, it is still to early to judge him on this regard. More over you shouldn't rely on words than actions. If he really loves you, he can show it to you in many different ways more than what words express. But he will soon begin saying "I love you. " Don't you worry!!
2006-12-06 05:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl why r u making a fuss about all of this? It's welle know that men don't talk that much about their feelings. If he's acting like he cares about you than it'll be enough for you.
He loves you and You love him. Get over it!
2006-12-06 04:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by sonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words, there are guys that are not good expressing thier feelings verbally.. sometimes you gotta deal with that.. just let him know that you really like it when he says i love you to you..thats the only way.. your the only one who can tell if he loves you..
is he happy when he sees you?
is he sad when your not there?
does he take care of you when your sick?
is he always there for you when you needed him?
is he gonna give up everything for you?
2006-12-06 04:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Peep STyLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you rushed him by sleeping with him and he is having second thoughts about you. Just give him time and see how he behaves. Do not push him into doing or saying something he does not mean, if he really loves you he will say it on his own.
2006-12-06 04:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋