This girl I have been hanging out with a lot lately is driving me crazy... I really like her a lot but I know she didn't used to feel the same way and i'm hoping that it might be different now. I need to know what i should say or do to determine if she wants something more, but i don't just want to come out and say... 'do you like me?'
2006-12-05 17:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by alltheanswers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then say "You don't like me, do you?" and she'll squeal and say "Oh my god I do!" And you'll say "How much" and she'll say "I don't know, friends I guess" and you'll say "More than friends" and she'll say "I don't know" and you'll say "I want to be more than friends"and she'll either say yes or no. Whew- I felt like I was there.
2006-12-05 17:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problems as you man but a little differnet. The first girl I ever had sex with calls me the next day after and said I dont want a relationship which crush my heart so I chill with her alot so she got to know me way better and got a better judgement and I stright out ask her again if she changed her mind and she didnt so I was kinda still pissed but I realise something. I built a really strong friendship which was way better than a relationship which would have ended probly in a few months.
2006-12-05 17:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her, your behaviors to her should be particularly different from the past. She may have already noticed that you like her more than as a friend, and now it's your chance, man. Tell her you have something to say and ask her to meet you when others aren't around. Don't worry about being kicked off. Gaining love always needs some point of bravery. Good luck!
2006-12-05 17:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by heyheyhey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. Do not resort to the 7th grade routine of asking your friends to ask her it she likes you or not. Next time you see her ask her if she would like to see a movie sometime or go get coffee just the two of you. Watch her reaction....if she tries to turn it into a group thing, or acts odd, then you have your answer...she's not interested. Good luck and all the best.
2006-12-05 17:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by aa_cooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be direct eventually. It's so much better to know, whether she says she likes you or doesnt like you. That way youll know whether or not you should keep pursuing her in that way. And if she doesnt like you still, you can still be her friend. Platonic relationships can be great and who knows, maybe she'll eventually want more.
2006-12-05 17:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you guys are already great griends and you dont want to ruin it
you should take her out to dinner and maybe kiss her and see what she does
if she gets freaked out, later on apoligize or something
if things seemed ok, then tell her you like her
anyways good luck
2006-12-05 17:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by bebehunn84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try looking her directly in her eyes when u 2 r alone and ask her how she feels about u 2.
2006-12-05 17:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can express your feelings through letters...just be gentle with your words and make it very artistic and romantic too...assured her that you'll respect her whatever her feelings towards you...
Best wishes for you
2006-12-05 17:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
drop subtle hints that you like her and ask her to go some place where it is one on one and try to get some physichal contact, if she seems positive about it then let it be, if not it's prob. not the right time.
2006-12-05 17:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by bruce77 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her if she sees you as a friend or something else and wha she thinks about you and there you'll kind of get an idea later you could tell her you have feeling for her
2006-12-05 17:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋