...and it's 1:00am here now, and she just text messaged me: she's down at the pub, and she'll be home by 2:15am.
She's clearly loaded; it was more like "i am at th pub c u l8r lik 2.15 ok lv u."
Should I make a big deal out of it when she comes home, or would that just encourage her to go out like that more often?
I've _told_ her all about the dangers of stray toms, and she just doesn't listen. She's spayed, but she thinks that's a license to be a good-time kitten.
She might be mad at me, though. Her adopted brother was neutered today, and now he's got the bedroom -- and might even be sleeping in her bed. She acted like it was no big thing. I said "Sophie, I really appreciate you letting Max have the bedroom for the moment. You're a very good kitty for being so understanding." She was pretty quiet about it, though.
How can I talk to her about this? Do you think she's mad at me? Or do you just find the drinking inexcusable?
2006-12-05 17:07:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
You might want to be a little easy on Sophie when she finally makes it home.
The chances of her taking little trips into the ally with some strays and sniffing a little catnip are pretty strong. It's hard telling what she would do if you ruffled her fur with any direct questioning tonight.
It good that she let Max into the bedroom to recover.
Maybe you should put a collar on her with 'the tag'.
At least if she blacks out and can't find her way in the morning then she can check her tag and toddle home.
She probably knows that someday she will come into the dreaded 'feline o' paws'. You know, that time of life when a cat is way past kitty games and starts to slow down a bit.
So let her have her fun and be glad that she calls and checks in. It's good that she has a kitty-litter kickin' attitude.
And she is so lucky to have a mommy/friend like you.
I'd keep an eye on her tho. And be watching for any strays that may come over looking for her.
And she is bound to get some 'cat calls'...as long as they are respectable young toms.
Have fun you two!
~wink, meow, wink, wink~
2006-12-05 17:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by oodlesoanimals 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like it might be a plea for attention. Maybe she feels as though you think since she's spayed, she doesn't have a right to her own space. Try sitting down with her and explaining how this is only a temporary situation and she is still loved and cared for. Even if she pretends that this is "no big deal" show her that you know what a sacrifice she is making, and make it up to her somehow (fresh fish is always a good choice).
Try not to make too big a deal of the whole pub thing, but make it clear that that sort of behavior can be dangerous. Healthier alternatives such as catnip and relaxing evenings on a sun-warmed windowsill should be encouraged.
2006-12-06 01:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi feathers 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, is it a reoccurring problem? Then Sophie might need an intervention. It is best to be calm and have other help approach her and let her know you are trying to help.
If Sophie is on a one-night binge just make sure she knows she can call you for a ride and not to go home with any strays - you know they like to prey upon lonely females who are feeling unimportant. Also let her know that spaying doesn't stop fleas, ticks, or coccidea... Practice safe humping and all that.
2006-12-06 01:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...well, at least Sophie was responsible enough to let you know where she was and when she'll return. That's already good parenting at work. Perhaps you may be able to let her know that you are concerned about her behaviour and you it is your hope that she will always use good judgement when she goes out. As parents we need to provide guidelines so that we don't take away the ability to allow them to learn how to make wise choices because they will never know that their actions has rewards and consequences. Approach her this way and maybe she'll consider the fact you are a loving, caring parent and only want what is in her best interest.
Give Sophie a pat for me! ....and Max too.
2006-12-06 01:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ Seattle ♫ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to lay down the law. She's testing her boundaries and unchecked will take advantage of your good nature. Damned if she's mad at you and do NOT let her bite the hand that feeds her. As for the drinking, well... If she doesn't do it all that often every cat needs a release. I'm sure she's under alot of stress because of her brother's convalescent condition. It is also because of this, that she may just be seeking some attention.
:-D
2006-12-06 01:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Vince 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you absolutely sure about all that? If you are I think the best course of action is for you to discuss it with your family doctor. In the mean time you might get some of your friends over to take all the sharp pointed objects in your house over to their houses for safe keeping from your "cat".
2006-12-06 01:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Vince, just because she feels put out at the mo' does not excuse her behaviour.
She'll probably show up in the morning without her unmentionables wishing for a coffee and a cigarette!
2006-12-06 01:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by mytraver 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-06 01:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, your the one at the pub and your cat is at home where she or he belongs. Remember, drinking too mush can cause an awshifer of the lawr to thro you in jale...
2006-12-06 01:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought my eyes had decieved me for a minute there...
2006-12-06 03:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋