why is it that i'm still thinking my exboyfriend even were break already 1year ago ,,, is it i still love him ?he's my first love.......please give some idea.......
2006-12-05 16:58:13 · 19 answers · asked by mgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to move on with your life, and it sounds like you haven't found much to fill the emptiness. Try to spend more time with friends and family, and get involved with something you enjoy (work, school, a hobby).
Healing takes time. You may always think of him, but as time passes it will be less, and it won't hurt as much. One day you will find someone else, and you'll be surprised that something that once seemed so troublesome has become only a small part of your memories.
2006-12-05 17:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by sparticle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once your in love, you can never forget that person. And you dont ever stop loving them either. Your love changes, it can go to the love you feel for your brother, or a close friend. And you still think about him, because you carry him in your heart. There will always be a space for him there, but now you have to make room for someone new. Give yourself the opportunity to feel for someone else. Just because you loved him once, doesnt mean you cant love someone else the same way. Or maybe more. Just give yourself the chance to learn to live without him. Go out with your friends, meet new people, make new friends. Occupy your time with things other than thoughts of him and soon you will realize that you dont have time to spend thinking about him all day. It will be a task but if you really want to move on, you can...
2006-12-05 17:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my ex girlfriend. We've been broken up for about six months and I still think about her often. She was my first love too. I used to wonder if I was still in love with her. I often had to remind myself of the reasons I broke up with her. I've realized that I probably think about her because I'm sometimes lonely and I don't have any other relationships to reflect warmly upon. I think I might miss being in a loving relationship more than I miss her specifically.
2006-12-05 17:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Link 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you Absolutely still do (Your going to make me cry ) . he 's your first love that's some of the reasons why you still think of him... why did you guys break up? if it's not something bad then give him a call and let him know how you still feel about him and work things out ..do not throw away true love over nothing i did and i regret it all the time and please don't let someone other girl get your true love . Girl Go Get Your Man.
2006-12-05 17:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's very natural..youre just reminiscing over the good times and want a relationship again....with that guy or not. Over time when you meet new people, you'll think about him less and less. but if you've already been in some relationships since then it could be that you still have feelings for him. try being his friend and take it from there.
2006-12-05 17:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by bree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It is NOT because you still love him. You are in love with the IDEA of him. The best way to get over him is to get in another relationship. Barring that, take a piece of paper and write down all of the things you disliked about your ex-bf. If you can get to ten things you disliked, re-read the list constantly. Remind yourself that you deserve better than him. And BELIEVE IT.
2006-12-05 17:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i feel ur pain .. i;m always thinking bout my ex too and we broke up a while ago but we just have to start having hope that we will find someone better some day and thatll help us move on..also a class or nething to keep ur mind off of him
2006-12-05 17:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only know this answer. Why u break up? That will answer why you still thinking of him. You must have made a mistake... that is clear you should salvage what u have before you feel real miserable.
2006-12-05 17:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww how cute.. hes your first love.. well im kinda in the same situation.. me and my ex just broke up like 3 days ago.. and i also KNOW that he is my true love.. honestly i think u still love him.. try calling him. if u really dont want to call him. go out with some of your friends get your mind off of him.. i kno its hard just try not to think about him.. do somthing you enjoy
2006-12-05 17:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by itz just me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just do- there's not really any big, deep meaning. You think of him and once you decide to let go or get busy with other things, you'll think of him less often. Right now it's more of a habit.
2006-12-05 17:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋