ok so i just had my first kiss the other day by the guy im dating, and he seemed really sloppy!!! it kinda grosses me out to kiss him now because he always opens his mouth and gets spit all over my mouth! he keeps trying to stick his tongue in my mouth but i am not interested in that yet! is there anything i could say to him to tell him that i would prefer jsut a soft kiss without hurting his feelings?
2006-12-05 16:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by shelly s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hahahahahaha... NO, that is kissing girl!! Thats the way it is! Get used to it, you'l eventually learn to love it, and trust me,when you do, it's addictive!
2006-12-05 17:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you kiss him dont open ur mouth because thats an open invitation for tongue. first kisses are always the worst...and some guys are just sloppy and its gross try doing short kisses with tongue not a long sloppy one
2006-12-06 01:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by YESIWILL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the guy, I would want to be told in a joking way, so I agree with one of the above answers. It would be kind of awkward if you came right out and told him that you didn't like it. He might get embarassed. He still needs to know though.
2006-12-06 01:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by KneeDeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it into a joke. Call him a "face-eater." Say that he needs to be schooled in the proper way to kiss and that you are going to teach him. Then, do it the way you want.
2006-12-06 00:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Tell him straight up. Guys love it straight up. Dont dance around the bush. Tell him outright. He will never improve unless you tell him. Just dont say anything to his mates if you like him. Best of luck
2006-12-06 00:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by TRTH-HNTR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how you tell him it will bother him--but it sounds like he needs to be told because even french kissing you dont get sloppy unless you want to---french is good you should try and like it--practice practice practice
2006-12-06 01:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could suggest to him something like "baby u know i really like it when you kiss me softly" suggest what u like so maybe he'll do it more..and stop that sloppiness ...ewww!
2006-12-06 00:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just straight out and tell him ... NO tongue .... if he doesn't respect you enough to comply with your wishes .... give him the flick
Good Luck
2006-12-06 01:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH OMG THIS IS FUNNY Q!! FIRST WHEN U MET DIS GUY U SHOULD SEEN WAY HE ACTS IF GUY SOUND GOOD TO U THEN SHOULD OK WAY HE KISSED U. IF U THINK THAT HE IS JUST HORNY THEN DONT THINK GOING OUT WITH HIM. FOR EXAMPLE I MET MY GF TWO YRS AGO, ONE DAY I ASKED HER TO GO OUT TO MOVIE SO AFTER MOVIE FINISHED WE WENT TO BEACH TALKED ABOUT STUFF THEN LATER ON FELT THING GETTING GOOD SO KISSED HER AND THEN ACTUALLY TOUCHED HER b0*BS..COULDT BELIEVE I DONE THAT AND SHE DIDNT REFUSE ME BECAUSE SHE KNEW ME WAY I ACT AND KNEW THAT IM GUY FOR HER SO THINGS COOL NOW. U FEEL HE IS OVER LIMIT JUST KEEP DISTANCE. GUD LUCK
2006-12-06 01:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just "be the teacher" lead him along gently...some guys think its hot if the lady takes a lil bit of control.
2006-12-06 00:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Dunkin' on yo head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋