This girl i like at work has really gotten to me bad, and ive pretty much downright ignored her(the best i can w/o not doing my job), for the past week....she told me to f*ck off..... she hasnt apologized for it...but shes always like thanking me now, and wanting to talk more, i just ignore her and get on with the work.she asked if im alright for a few days, but now shes just trying to talk more and acting really nice...should i tell her whats on my mind?....basically we use to talk heap, goes to lunches and movies etc....and laugh i mean laugh all the time...she really liked to touch me alot....all that changed about 2 weeks ago, and she started to distance herself from me....then i was trying to cheer her up one day, by annoying her as i always do, and she told me to f off!....and it really got to me(she knows this too!)......should i now explain to her, or wait for her to come back to me, and explain...i dont know why she distance herself, but shes back to being normal with me...?
2006-12-05 16:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one thing, is it best to approach in person, over the phone? or msn? etc....either way works or one better than the otheR???
2006-12-05 16:52:31 · update #1
Maybe she was just having a bad day when she told you to ***** off and so now she's trying to make it up to you. give her a chance to be nice to you again.............
2006-12-05 16:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey guy, i think that your friend this girl would probably has something in her mind that puts her off during that time when she growl at u. The way that you put it was that you guys were really good friends at work, laughing and dating out. Moreover, she get back to you normal after a short while, could spell that her snubbing to you isn't abnormal. She shouldn't has say that to you thou, but you can feel that she's trying to mend things up now rite?
Dun be a petty, go up to her or met her somewhere for a coffee after work and talk about it. Something may surprise you.
2006-12-06 01:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by ConfuseD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seems to me that she had something going on and you came to her at the wrong time, even tho you were trying to help cheer her up. Now she feels really bad about what she said and she is trying to make up to you in her own way. We have all have said something wrong to someone in the moment, give her a chance for an explanation, also tell her what you are feeling, then and now. Tell her that their are other ways of telling people that "Now is not the time" then by saying f...off! I hope that this might help you, it looks like you really care.
2006-12-06 01:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that day that she swore at you she was just having one of those days and now feels bad about it. I wouldn't push or move too fast back into hanging together all the time but I wouldn't shun her either. Just take it slow but when you do feel "normal" again, let her know how this whole situation bothered you (and don't take it from her twice.) Good luck!
2006-12-06 00:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she knows now that she were wrong! but she really needs to say that little word I'M SORRY! so until she comes up to u then ur need to keep ignoring her! because if she said F;;k off that time who's to say she won't say it again! so why take the chance again to be hurt! after she has apologized then u tell her how that made u feel!!! oh but don't get to close to her again after that, unfortunately u need to move on! now hear this never ever get ur P...Y and ur pay check in the same place!!!
2006-12-06 01:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she was having a bad day... if it is really bothering you then i think you should talk about it.. it doesnot matter what mode you use.. if you r not comfortable talking face to face about it...
donot let this bother you too much.. just deal with it and get on with your life.....
2006-12-06 00:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her how you feel...maybe she has been acting weird because she realizes she likes you too and doesnt know what to do or maybe isnt ready for a relationship so is backing off...confront her with ur feelings or just kiss her...thats romantic! good luck!
2006-12-06 00:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by YESIWILL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicating would help a lot! and when u do talk to her, be honest too with what u feel, if the relationship will move on further or what? so she'll know too.. otherwise, she'll really be "normal", if she knows the relationship wont go anywhere.
2006-12-06 00:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a nice guy and she is just taking advantage of you. You dont treat your mates like that so why should you accept it from her?
2006-12-06 00:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by kay f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple ask her what happened that day that made her seem angry or upset...approach her and tell her what's on your mind
2006-12-06 00:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by loveable1392 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋