this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:(((( what shud i doo pls advice me..!
2006-12-05 16:42:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the thing is, i cant confront him that i know hes lookin for brides cuz then he will be like how did u know since i made the fake id...so shud i silently jus cut his contact...or tell him to not contact me nemore..or wat??
2006-12-05 16:43:09 · update #1
relax..ok? we'll get through this. you seem to be a girl whose into true love.and you would giev anything for that.for the man who shows true love.you even gave yourself.indians are forbidden to have sex with their partner,unless they are married.am i right? by looking at what you are saying about this guy,its obvious that he is such a jackass! he is folling you around while searching for a virgin indian bride.if he is serious with you, he would have not started to check out on other girls,brides,or even flirt around..
worse is to say that " he is thinking on going on a long tern relationship with you". it slearly shows that this is guy is totally playing the fool out of your life.he knew your the soft type, the type who would give anything for love.so, he pretended to give you love and have something else in return.SEX.that's what i meant.now that he has had a piece of you,he is done with you. if he is serious about you,he would have confronted his parents about you.now,its never too late.go up to this guy,confront him. i know that you are depressed,and i know exactly how you feel. but, hey,confront him.and his parents.tell him what a jackass he is.and even if he is willing to commit yourself with you again, don't be.as he was not committed to you before.don't let your life to be played by these kinda jerks.your life isn't a playground. so stand up for yourself, and get him toasted!
2006-12-05 16:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 22:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Don't be a chicken. Let him know he failed a test you put him through. Ask him if he's gonna be true or if it's one of those friends with benefits things. if that's it, then cut the dude off. he has no right to be taking the most precious items you have to offer, any girl for that matter, and just using them like toilet paper.
2006-12-05 16:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand all the " caste" details etc. but i can spot a creep a mile away. Seems to me he is using you...like sex....this guy must think he's the proverbial Shiek looking to fill his Harem. I think you should break contact all the way and pull back and regroup...there's gotta be a Gentlemen for you somewhere.
2006-12-05 16:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off calm down sweetie breathe!.. secondly if you guys had sex and he still calls u and says sweet things and is still looking for someone else...all he probably wants is sex...if i was u id find me someone differnt. i know easier said then done cause u care about him but if he is flirting with everyone and looking for other girls then what he said probably doesn't mean anything...but good luck!
2006-12-05 16:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make another fake ID....flirt with him for a few hours and just when he is asking to hook up with you....tell him you are a man....that oughta teach the damn cheater
2006-12-05 16:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason he is looking around is probubly because he has to marry someone and wants to make sure he really likes the person first. just relax and let it go. if it gets worse tellhim not to contact you anymore.
2006-12-05 16:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool if you pursue him. CLEARLY, he's a cheat and only wants a f*ck buddy. You're only meat on a stick with him.
Take a spelling class and find another guy.
2006-12-05 16:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u need to confront him and u are totally right he shouldn't be doing that if he's into!! u need to tell him u now!!
2006-12-05 16:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a playboy and cheater...just dump him and move on with your life, you'll find someone better than him, believe me...
2006-12-05 16:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋