I am friends with a guy Ive known for about 3 months now. We ring each other every day, see each other about 4-5 times a week, we were arranging to go away. He is very affectionate and tells me nice things eg I look beautiful but yet he hasnt 'committed'. It is driving me insane because I want more than a friendship with this guy. Should I keep my cool and wait till he says or does something or wait for eternity?
2006-12-05 16:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like more than a friend, sounds like hes interested. But he may just be interested in casual dating and sex. If you are not into that I would say a conversation is in order.
Just know, just because you have sex doesn't mean you are committed, and if you do it before there is one, there may never be a commitment. And if you expect it you ae just setting yourself up for fights and heartache.
Decide what you want, decide what you will settle for and go from there.
2006-12-05 16:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by micheletmoore 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question, I am asking myself the same thing. Except that I have known this "friend" for over 4 years, and we have actually been together but he hasnt said anything about commitment either. And I am waiting for eternity. You may not want to, it all depends on how much you want to be with him. How much you care about him, and if you love him. If you do, and you think that he may also feel that way for you than go for it. Waiting is the worst thing that I could have done, and am still doing, but it just doesnt seem like the right time. Sometimes its better when the woman makes the first move, so go for it. Tell him how you feel, see how he feels and if he doesnt feel the same then at least you know that your not wasting your time. And your not putting your heart at stake, the more you wait the harder you will fall for him, and the harder it will be to ask him. Good luck....
2006-12-05 16:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever told him how your feeling? maybe he is just afraid to make the first move. just see what he says about the idea. he might be afraid of commitment..good luck with what u decide to do!
2006-12-05 16:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak your mind. Let him know you want him. Make small, but noticeable sacrifices to be with him. Let him know you want him.
2006-12-05 16:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u want, if he doesn't want the same thing you want then move on. don't waste ur time - some guys (and girls) never come around.
2006-12-05 16:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU WANT MORE THEN TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND
GO FROM THERE. HE MAY WANT MORE AS WELL. AND DONT KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. GO FOR IT.
2006-12-05 16:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm...dont think more !!
2006-12-05 16:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by h82s00 . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋