2006-12-05 16:38:23 · 28 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
suck it up princess
2006-12-05 16:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by stylzz17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sign of growing commitment and trust, which will evolve naturally over time. Everyone has their past. But yesterday was a history. Is he still having unusual contact (more than just friends)? Unless there's more to this than you've revealed, the drama is something you're constructing in your head. Let go & let feelings of mutual attachment develop naturally.
Talk to him nicely if you really feel uncomfortable about it but not to attack him or make him responsible for your feelings. Let him understand how it affects you. You have to deal with the feeling of insecurity & jealousy. I know it’s not easy but it can be done, one at the time. Good luck.
2006-12-06 00:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes still doing stuff with these girls then you have every right to be upset. But if you just dont like the fact that hes "seasond" then dont be with him. He cant do anything about the things hes done in the past, and theres no reason for you to be upset with him.
2006-12-06 00:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him bad, it's better if you learn to accept his past, deal with the present, and talk about the future, if you care for each other, getting upset, been jealous, it's a waste of time, have fun and enjoy what you have now.
good luck
2006-12-06 00:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by aranda1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would that upset you?
It's because you're insecure. You're only going to chase him away with this behavior, trust me.
You have to just forget it. You weren't there, so it's not like he was cheating on you. It's the past. You just have to accept it.
If you try to make him "pay for it" by punishing him with jealous behavior, you're going to lose him.
2006-12-06 00:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by mande95747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever u get the upset at the time u r going to positive or negative side that means positive is Possessiveness and negative is anger with him.
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2006-12-06 00:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by saravana m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should realize that he had a life before you. Find out why he never lasted with any of them and what is it that he looking for in a girl and be one he'll never forget.
2006-12-06 01:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by miss tique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, my boyfriend is the same way, and it disgusts me, UUGH! alls i can say is that I stopped thinkin about it, cuz the more i think about it the more i dont want him to touch me, but then it made things worse when he told me the way he remembered my name was because a girl he f*cked had the same name....Well, THANKS ALOT...at least yours hasnt done that yet..haha, just DONT think about it
2006-12-06 00:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by goapple_goorange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he with any of them still?
You can't change his past. Its up to you whether or not you can get over it. If it bothers you that bad, find a less experienced boyfriend.
2006-12-06 00:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past for a reason let it stay there forget whats before and look whats ahead, dont waste something good you might have.
2006-12-06 00:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be hard, but what he did before you really has nothing to do with you. As long as he is faithful to you, the past is the past!
And if you continue to nag him, and bring up his past, he isn't going to want to stay with you. He is going to get fed up and eventually dump you!
THE PAST IS THE PAST!!!
2006-12-06 00:42:00 · answer #11 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋