Yeah, whenever I do find myself being treated like a wall or tree, that's when I break out the rude insults, and then they will talk to me forever. But when I try to play simple and sincere, they treat me like dirt.
I'm a guy, and I have this problem exlusively with female friends, "NOT FEMALES I WISH TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH'.
2006-12-05 16:34:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You're not alone brother. It's just the games they play. For some odd, INSANE reason, girls seem to like guys who treat them like trash. I had an ex who dumped me for her ex who happens to be a retarded-looking (buck-teeth worse than Letterman) sexual abuser with a criminal record of assault, assault on police officer, and various firearms charges (kid was 17). THAT was a huge downer and it took me a year to get my confidence back. For a while I was wondering what's worse than that. I came to wonder if I was a subliminally activated al-Qaeda sleeper agent because that's the only thing that's worse than a retarded-looking sexual abuser with a criminal record.
2006-12-05 16:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the wrong friends. True friends like you for you, not for your fake sarcasm.
Personally, I don't like hanging around people who are negative all the time. It's quite possible that you may be driving away the company of the very type of friends you are interested in if you are doing this a lot.
Hopefully you'll find some friends who will see through the fake rudeness to the person inside. You are worth it.
2006-12-05 17:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm incredibly in the comparable difficulty my suitable pal and that i've got been acquaintances for some 365 days (after failing at courting we went some week and found out it grow to be weird and wonderful XD) yet we are mutually now and characteristic been for approximately 2 months, lol, uncertain on sturdiness, yet yeah i think of that this is familiar, one in each of my suitable male acquaintances is acquaintances with extra ladies that adult men so it in simple terms relies upon on the guy, and if he in simple terms sees you as a chum you will possibly be able to desire to artwork some to alter that is you so choose it yet diverse intercourse friendships are starting to be further and added complication-loose
2016-12-13 03:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by roher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks dont want mr. nice guy. Plain and simple. If youre the nice guy, you will be overlooked forever. You have to be a bit reserved, a bit cocky, and a bit brutish and typically male. It's what they want and not what they need. in 20 years theyll realise this, and then you'll be all set.
2006-12-05 16:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by stu b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's just the personalities and preference of your particular female friends. I get annoyed with guys who are sarcastic and insulting.
2006-12-05 16:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're afraid to fall for you or you to fall for them.
2006-12-05 16:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by frozenthunder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋