ok theres this girl well shes an ex and lately we have been talking about fixing things. well tonight we started off ok you know joking around and stuff, then we get into a fight over something she heard and then she found out it wasnt true. so right before it was time to go so she can go to bed she starts acting all odd then she writes my name on her low hips and then writes the first letters of our names somewhere else on her body and tells me to find it. so its going in a dirty way but taking it slow then she says time for her to go to bed and that i should i do and i tell her before i go "have a good day tomorrow" and she says "uhm yea whatever night? why is she hot and cold most of our nights is like that. am i missing someinthing? what is her deal?
2006-12-05 16:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a gal that has been described as a hot/cold individual...I really think you should look within yourself and see if you're treating her that way as well. I basically treat guys how they treat me. At the same time, it may also be because she's afraid of getting hurt. Show her that she can trust you by never returning the attitude. Give her compliments and check up on her.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 16:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing games kinda trying to decide if you can have an amusing, strong, dominant personallity or not.
Easy trick: start writing on her closer to her forbidden zones and see how she reacts, even if she reacts kinda angrily just laugh about it like stop doing it but say "ha...shoot...so much for that vibe". Think of her like a friend with benefits in your mind though not a potential girlfriend: this should give you some confidence & stop you're terrible guilt streak that may be making you seem predictable and boring to her (IE the "nice guy" who has nothing to offer but killing the naughty mood by being polite).
I figure either she wants you to become a naughty guy so you can do whatever the guy she perhaps broke up with you to be with better or she just wants to use you to make her feel popular to be more confident and have a chance with that other guy. Treat it like you're just playing a game & touching up on your skills for fun (and perhaps for the "better" girl after her) and you're likely to impress her and improve your skills or, at worst, come out looking good and with her getting not playing you any more than she's getting played back.
Good luck man.
2006-12-06 01:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either a tease, or she's expecting you to do something that you're not doing.
2006-12-06 00:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE SHE PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU. TIME TO
MOVE ON. SHE FULL OF IT.
2006-12-06 00:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have much experience with women......do you?
2006-12-06 00:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt really want you
2006-12-09 18:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋