i try to please people and make new friend with these guys from the gym now i am hearing they are talking behind my back and werent laughthing with me but at me dudes i hate people they bring me pain all i want is a true frined
2006-12-05 16:27:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm with you, I haven't got a single friend anywhere!! And I know I've tried-I have, but people only want friends that can give them something, and if you've not got that elusive something, your on your own. I've learnt this after years of searching both for friendships and for reasons why nobody wants to know. I've become totally uncomfortable around people face to face, because I'm absolutely sure they dislike me, for all my past experiences have taught me this is true. I may sound negative, I wish it didn't sound that way, but regardless of what others may say, the facts are that if you lack that certain something, you ARE on your own. You can let it eat you up, or you can try to rise above it. I find interaction on here and on other email communications a source of relief for the loneliness, but even here people can mis interperate your words. It pays to take your time writing and thinking about what words best express yourself. If you want to you can click on my ID picture and email me, I'll try my best to be a friend to you all be it a virtual one.
2006-12-05 17:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Honey W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way. My co-workers are dicks.
I don't know what the answer is. I just try and remind myself whenever I'm thinking about how cruel they've been to me to just "f*** 'em."
The world is packed to the rafters with a-holes. Don't let it get you down. Keep looking for a good person to make a friend. They're rare, but I know they're out there.
2006-12-05 16:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Good Times, Happy Times... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a best Early Indian solution is available for you.' Rishis, Sadhus,Sidhars,Yogis ' of early India had same feeling like you & then decided to go into Jungles and started living there thereupon.......
You can try this.............
Ahah ahah aahha...
Jokes apart,people are not machines.Their behaviours are influenced by many, many factors.of hectic life style nowadays of this materialistic society......
Do not magnify small shortcomings of your friends..
Try to adjust your opinions & learn the art of living with this ' lions,monkeys,tigers,snakes' of land.............
2006-12-05 16:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by ramasamy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say..but there are a lot of people out there that do this.. it don't matter what the age is either..you just have to learn to pick and chose your "Friends" carefully...don't give up on all people...there are some good people out here..........
2006-12-05 16:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Katfish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
But people are made in God's image. NOT. Seriously, find better people to be friends with.
2006-12-05 16:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Larry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is your only true friend. He'll make you stong enough not to need to please and impress people all the time. When you behave like that people don't respect you; that's why you find it hard to make friends.
It's a vicious circle that when you need friends you act like a creep and put people off. Jesus is the Way out of it.
Bless you.
2006-12-05 16:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I decided that a while ago, I discovered you don't make friends if you aren't friendly - which sort of means you have to like people...
I know it is tough when you are hurting, don't hold back you only live (well according to me) once...
2006-12-05 16:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Abbasangel 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's why I'm basically a loner. I have a few friends I chat with, E-mail to, but, basically, I keep to my self.
2006-12-05 16:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by creeklops 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like I've always believed. All anyone needs is one good friend.
2006-12-05 16:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Smoke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people are just fake......i know what you mean.....the truthest friend u can ever have is Jesus...no kidding! ask him in ur heart to confess your sins to him....u will not believe what will happen! im not lying here
2006-12-05 16:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋