2006-12-05 16:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that all depends on the kind of person you are... and who you'd want to become, because single people are totally different then hooked up people...it's a different lifestyle, and different commitments... your life doesn't belong to just you anymore... when your hooked up...you have to compromise a lot...when you're hooked up..you have to love yourself a lot to be hooked up, so that the person can rely on your strength to get thru whatever they might have to get thru....and it seems to me that people that are single... tend to be a little more lonely...probably because they are self centred and only think of themselves, which is probably why they are single..
you have to give a lot of yourself when you're in any relationship............good luck with that one...
2006-12-05 16:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to say single! I'm married and been married going on 6 yrs. i love my husband but i also would like to be single. u don't have to answer to any one come and go as u please spend ur money how u want and so forth. u can have someone as friends with benefits that u can chill if u need someone in ur life in that way. but make sure they understand that. it really all depends on the person though. if ur fine being alone then single. but if u need that other person then hook up with someone. but sometimes im glad im with someone. but single is nice by far!!
2006-12-06 00:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a choice you have to decide for yourself in the end...personally I like being married to my wife...but we are also in the lifestyle and have an open marriage. Is this for everyone? No, because you have to be very secure in your marriage, but it can be very rewarding as well and it keeps the relationship from going sour.
just something to think about and I know I will make some of you out there unhappy with my answer..but that is fine...it is a good life and we enjoy being open and in the lifestyle.
2006-12-06 00:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will it depend being single u dont have to answer to anyone but hooked up u have someone to love hold etc it feels to to have someone in your life u can call your man or your women
2006-12-06 01:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely being hooked up because then you don't have to wory about finding someone. you don't have to worry about things not working out. and whats best about being hooked up is that you dont have to worry about hurting anyone.
2006-12-06 00:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally hate being alone definitely hooked up!
2006-12-06 00:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being single is fun, going out to clubs/bars and having fun on your terms.
But sometimes you kinda wish you were with someone in a meaningful relationship.
2006-12-06 00:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i jsut recently became "hooked up" after being single my whole life, and let me tell you single is much much better! haha
2006-12-06 00:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by shelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
single
2006-12-06 00:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hooked up. hands down
2006-12-06 00:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by fairlyodd44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋