Basically me and this girl have a great deal of trust for each other. And she drops hints from time to time about liking me. So i told her i like her, and she treated it like a joke.....Long story short, after she got dissed by one of my friends, that she really liked( and he messed it up for me, by asking her out for me). She called me a few times, and i poured my emotions out too her. And she hints at liking me a little. And her friend said she might like me a little.
This has been going on for about 4 months, and were juniors in High School. Check my other questions for more info on the girl, almost all my que
2006-12-05 16:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she was dating a friend of yours she probably is not going to date you. just using you for information to get back to the x. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 15:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a lot of game playing and mixed emotions going on here. I think the only way to sort all of this out is to ask her over, or go out to dinner together or something and lay everything out on the table. Tell her your feelings and remind her that you are serious this isn't a joke to you, and to stop playing games. Tell her you need/deserve to know how she feels about you. Don't let her get out of it don't be pushy and rude just focus on how important working all of this is to you.
If she cares about you she will explain things to you because it is important to you. Just be prepared, she has been sending mixed signals, so she could tell you she only likes you as a friend. In that case you have to decide if you can be friends with her. Being friends with her will include being there for her and talking about other guys. If you don't think you can handle that end the friendship as well. If she says that she only wants to be your friend don't hang around and be friends with her to try and get her to like you. you can't force anyone to like you.
So before you have this talk with her think about what you are going to say, and be honest with her. Also think about what her answers may be and be ready to handle whatever she throws at you. I really hope she likes you you sound like such a great guy. Hey if it doesn't work out i promise you will find a girl who appreciates you for who you are.
2006-12-06 00:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever actually asked her what does she feel sth for you? Maybe you could to do that first. But this is a little suspicious to me...I mean girls usually adore when someone likes them and if they like the guy back they sure have a obvious way to show it.
In my opinion either she's shy...or she doesn't really know what she wants.
Hope I helped. Good luck.
2006-12-06 00:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by xmalalaura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its girls like this that give all females a bad name. She's playing yo-yo with your emotions, trying to see how far she can make you go. I don't think you should continue to waste your time on this one. Maybe if you take time away from her, you'll find someone who knows what they want. Good luck.
2006-12-06 00:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by BeautifuLL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u poured out ur feelings to her and she's not actin upon it.. then u need 2 move on the better things cuz obv. she doesn't care and and she might like u a lil? jus let it go while ur wastin ur time trying to get this girl to act upon wha uve said to her already.. u could be sayin to some1 else da cares
2006-12-06 00:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's keeping you hanging just in case she gets desperate; drop her, and find someone that will be there for you through thick and thin. You deserve much more than she's willing do give!
2006-12-06 00:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU NEED TO LEAVE HER ALONG, IF SHE
REALLY CARE FOR YOU SHE WOULD NOT HAVE DISMISSED YOUR FEELING FOR HER. AND THE ONLY
REASON AS YOU STATED WAS THAT SHE GOT DISSED
BY SOMEONE ELSE. SO KNOW SHE WANT TO TALK TO
YOU. WELL I WOULD LET HER KNOW YOU SNOOZE
YOU LOSE. SORRY TO SAY THAT BUT IF SOMEONE
DO THAT THEY DONT CARE FOR ANY ONE BUT THEM
SELF. AND YOU DESERVE MORE THAN THAT.
2006-12-06 00:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to tell u that but don't waste ur feelings on her,some girls just love to be loved
2006-12-06 00:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by runner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on shes a joke you dont need that
2006-12-06 00:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not like you at all, but she may be mad at you for not polking her when she flurts with you.
2006-12-06 00:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋