i like this girl and she knows i have a crush on her...she's my bestfriend and she likes this guy and this guy likes her too she knows that i am mad at that guy :)) this past few days i have realized that i can't stop their feelings for each other so i said to her that im sorry that i hate the guy you like...if there's a possiblity that things wouldn't work out for them could she realize that i was always there for her?
2006-12-05 16:19:47 · 8 answers · asked by ram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you! What you did is probably the best thing you could have done. If your in high school these things aren't everalsting, just be yourself she knows your there for her and pateintly remind her of that. Don't ever stop being her friend if she goes out with this guy. Keep your promise and if things don't work out, you will be there for her, she'll come around. Good Luck!!
2006-12-05 16:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal question, and I don't really know the details. But I think a way of showing her that you are always there for is (I know this is probably not what you want to hear) try to support her in her interest in this other guy, or at least try to get along with him better for her sake. I think that is one of the truest signs of really caring about someone; that they love you enough to support you even when it is difficult and painful to them. I know what a hard situation this is to be in, and I wish you luck.
2006-12-05 16:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi feathers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be good friends with the guy that she liked although you may think it is absolutely revolting. Then she may think that you are actually a nice guy and once she no longer like that guy or they have some relationship problems then go grab your chance! HAHAHA
2006-12-05 16:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by *azure* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say be patient. After all it could be a test of patience. Like be there for her when she is sick bring a teddy bear or something to her. Or play what I call my game "hard to get". I have to say us girls totally dig that!!!!
2006-12-05 16:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Know-It-All or Nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is a possibilty... maybe she just failed to realize that her love was right there all along.. and she is blind not to see that if things didnt work out for ur best fren. u still have a shot! just go for it..
2006-12-05 16:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by [MiA] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time.if it's meant to be it will happen in time.
she just needs time to realize what she has and to not take advantage of it...she just needs some time to see that love/like is right in front of her face
2006-12-05 16:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by loveable1392 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know.. but if she knows you like her and she chose the other guy than you should get over her and look for someone else.. don't waste your time .. wating for something to go wrong between them..
2006-12-05 16:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by coqueta19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, What did you do for her? Was it important? If I was her I would probably realize that you were there for me???
2006-12-05 16:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋