i have a boyfriend that ive been talking to online for almost 3 months. hes coming down here in texas just to see me. he expects to have sex with me on the first day. but im a virgin. he says im going to bleed at first. but im not sure whats going to happen. and i never used a condom before! im 18 but im embarassed to buy it.
2006-12-05 15:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by heyyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE FOLLOW MY ADVICE: DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!! You seem like you are not ready and if you have sex with him YOU ARE GOING TO REGRET IT!! He is playing you, just trying for you to lose your virginity to him. Many guys get turned on by a virgin and would do anything to be their first. If you are not ready don't do it. What kind of guy would tell you that you are going to lose your virginity the first time that he meets you??! If he loves you, HE WILL RESPECT YOU and wait for you. But if you feel that you are...BE CAREFUL
2006-12-05 15:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg lady, U R NOT READY. Especially to someone that will go away and u may never see. he seems like he wants one thing. if he says he wants sex on first day that doesnt sound very understanding or carying or sencere. u seem very young in the way u r talking as well, and he seems pushy, i feel this is not goin to turn out good. tel him ASAP that he will not get sex first day. Y dont u do it wit someone u love and hav spend heaps of time with??? ur a vergin and thats a GIFT TRUST ME
plz let me know what u think
2006-12-05 23:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by hondachick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait. not the first date, not in your position... you can get a condom from your school, or the health dept, and they will also help you with how to use it and any other questions you may have.... but i don't think that you should agree to have sex on the frist date, and not until you are ready... where in tx.. if you decide later that you want to then go ahead and do it because you want to, dont let him force you into it... se x is fun and you will enjoy it but there are risks so just be careful... anyone who demands it from you is not worthy of receiving it s e x from you.
2006-12-05 23:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,PLEASE do not meet this guy on your own the first night. Take someone with you.I know you've probably heard all the stuff about Internet dating and that,but seriously.Think safety.Take someone with you the first time and decide from there.As for condoms,cashiers are used to people being embarrassed about buying them. It's normal.
2006-12-05 23:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your going to have sex with him without metting him really? is that such a hot idea? be careful... be very careful... make him buy the condom if he doesn't DON'T HAVE SEX... really before you guys have sex you should take him to a planed parenthood and get him tested in front of you... if that condom breaks and he has an std... most people don't know they have one... you could be in a lot of trouble... be careful if your important to him he should be willing to wait... and you should wait...
2006-12-05 23:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by kirstin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to buy the condoms and don't let him go all the way in. Just the tip.
2006-12-06 00:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by miss tique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is into rap re-pell him with some Led Zeppelin it ROCK in the purest form he will leave & you can save your virginity for someone worth the wait
2006-12-05 23:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by edward l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U dont necessarily bleed unless u never mastrubated..:) Ask ur bf to buy condoms , he should be wearing it .
2006-12-05 23:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont even do it unless you love him, or are confident with him. if you are this nervous already, i dont think you should even go through with it to begin with. as for buying a condom, its not hard, maybe a little embaressing, just choose a girl cashier to check out with, and feel confident.
but again, i wouldnt even go through with it if i were you.
2006-12-05 23:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by julez 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
holy crap!!!! dont do it! no wait! u r not ready! tell him u dont want to rush it! tell him ur not ready! he'll understand if hes a sweet guy, if he still pushes u on break up with him thats not cool at all. dont do it!
2006-12-05 23:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by The butter duchess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋