no stupid answers please...such as you just know...i mean how you really know that you are ready or does it happen when least expected and when it does happen do you regret it doing it that fast and should of waited longer.
2006-12-05 15:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just for the record, i am not a virgin,,,i regret the first time but then i got over it...and i am still with the same person that i lost my self to.
2006-12-05 15:37:25 · update #1
it is really something that you feel --- but you need to be sure that you are doing it because its a progression of the relationship not just the guy wanting to have sex
its difficult to say if you would regret it or not --- i suppose it depends on the guy if he is serious about you and will stay with you.
when you are young its probably best to wait and wait so that you can get the dating experience and be able to read guys better
when you are older sex is just something that can be enjoyed by two people and both of you are interested in making a relationship work
2006-12-05 15:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are in love with the person, then it will be the best.
Make sure it is with someone you trust and feel very comfortable with. To be safe, try to wait as long as you can. When you feel you can't wait anymore, then give it a try. Just make sure the guy respects you beforehand and wants you for more reasons than just sex.
2006-12-05 15:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by xo0ox143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think it is important that you are willing to accept ALL the consequences (pregnancy, HIV, AIDs, Hepatitus, Syphillus, ANYTHING), even when you have safe sex. I know that sounds silly and overdoing it, but if you consider all the social consequences- will people call you a slut, whore, easy.. what will your bf tell his friends in the locker room? Does he love you? Why did he want to have sex with you? I still think sex should be a serious choice for everyone.
2006-12-05 15:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are ready when you have no doubts about it.
and like they ^ said...you have to be ready to assume ALL outcomes of it.
and when you love the person, it makes everything that much easier.
if it starts to happen and you don't want it to, then you aren't ready and just be like "hey i'm not ready." you don't need to apologize, it's your body and only you know when you are fully ready.
2006-12-05 15:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by dancergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would know when im with the person who I love
2006-12-05 15:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when fluids start flowing for girls, and for guys they getting erection for while after citing good shapes...
2006-12-05 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your willing to take responsibility for the outcome, pregnancy, emotional commitment.
2006-12-05 15:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋