my b/f and i have lived together for 2 yrs. he receives phone calls says they are from his employees but i ck call history and nothing there at that time period... he spends alot of time at work, is he cheating on me ? how will i know? i love this guy soooo much.
2006-12-05 15:20:39 · 18 answers · asked by Mary r j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, at a glance that seems completely innocent. Plenty of people bring work home. So ask yourself what's going on that's making you take something that seems innocent and attach cheating to it. And then focus on that. There's something going on, like his recent attitude or something that's tipped you off and made you feel suspicious. Call him on that.
2006-12-05 15:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by The Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't jump to conclusions. Don't get too paranoid, it will cause you to be very distrusting in him.
You need to talk to him about this, if you two have been together for 2 years, you should know if he is telling you the truth or not. What does he do for his work? Does his job require him to work long hours, or stay overnight?
Ask him to introduce you to his employees, invite them over for a dinner party or something. Then you may feel more comfortable knowing the people that he spends a lot of time with.
2006-12-05 15:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you checking your call history? You obviously suspect something is going on, and if that's true, it's because of more than phone calls. How has your bf been treating you lately? Are you guys distant or snappy? Take a look at your whole relationship, and if you truly thing he is cheating, ask him. If he all around is treating you poorly, than ask him what the deal is. Good Luck! If he's a cheating loser, good bye!
2006-12-05 15:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up the show ''Cheaters'' and Joey Greco will help you out.
If all else fails, scare the living hell outa him with something like, ''I saw this story on 20/20 a couple nights ago, it was about a woman who killed her cheating husband then killed herself. She loved him so much she couldn't live in a world without him. Isn't that romantic, babe?'' If he is cheating, he'll go change his pants then stop it.
2006-12-05 15:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by isthatit? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is up to no good at all. If I was you I would find a reason to listen in on his phone conversations (If you have another line). Test it out when hes not home to figure out in what fashion you can listen in without being caught (use your head and youll figure it out).
Finally I would advise more so than that, is to follow him around at certain times. Just drive thru make sure his car is at work or where it is suppose to be etc etc.
It sounds like to me he is very much so up to no good. I can't say for certain but it does sound like it.
2006-12-05 15:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can go on cheaters or you could bug the phone or you could act like you're goring away for the weekend and put a Carma in you're home look you have to know because ads is not a joke so do this its better to know now then later good luck
2006-12-05 15:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is just straight up ask him. If you do think something is fishy, then follow him one day (lol) and see what he does. I don't think, from reading your question, that he is cheating on you. He might really have work to do.
2006-12-05 15:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by KOOKIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is. It's easy to just say "I'm going to work." And living with you (like my situation) a lot of guys take advantage of girls! But luckily this is not the case here. Do what your gut instinct tells you to, and don't be afraid to say "I'm done..." and walk out.
2006-12-05 15:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by delightracardeanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect him of cheating, he probably is. I don't know him or you so I can't say for sure, but be on the look out for other signs.
2006-12-05 15:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like it, u can usually tell by the way he is with you, like if he is giving less attention if he is bother more than usal and if hes not telling you the thruth bout the calls then thats a problem
2006-12-05 15:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋