I have affair with my girlfriend since 2000, but now i dont like her and dont wanna marry her. I start liking other girl and she likes me. And i like to marry her. How i can say to my first girlfriend that i dont want to marry her and want to end our relationship? Is it good idea to say my first girlfriend about the other girl or not? Help me Plz.
2006-12-05 15:17:53 · 7 answers · asked by Guess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly wouldn't tell her about the other girl, i think it will just add fuel to the fire and hurt her even more. I mean you are prob going to break your girls heart, but if you don't love her you can't marry her and have to break up. So i think you need to sit her down and just come out with it. Say that you haven't been happy in a while, and really feel like you have to end the relationship. Tell her that you are thankful for the time you two spent together, and still care about her, you just don't love her in a romantic way any more, and say that you decided you can't go through with marrying her if you are not happy because it will result in divorce and that will hurt even more. I mean there isn't really an easy way to do this, its gonna be hard no matter what you say, just try to be as kind as possiable.
As for the other woman, don't jump into marrying her right away give it some time. Make sure you really love her and won't end up wanting to go back to the first girl. Also if you are going to be with the new girl i wouldn't go flawnting it around everywhere, give it some time and keep it low key out of respect for your soon to be ex. Remember you were with her for a long time and you should still respect her feelings even though you aren't together any longer.
Hey you never know maybe you will get lucky and will break up with the first girl and she will understand and say that she feels the same way. Mutual break ups are always the easiest, hopefully she is calm and doesn't go crazy. If she does go crazy don't let the new girl get involved in any way. Don't put her in the middle of it. Good luck and remember be kind.
2006-12-05 15:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six years is a long time and from the sound of things you have at best become bored with your girlfriend, if that is the case it is best you do not get married. The easiest way to break up is to make a girl think it is her choice and not you. You just need to be all the things she does not like and you should know what they are you have been with her long enough to know and she will be the one to kick you out, then there is always the let her catch you in bed with the other one that would work faster.
2006-12-05 23:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just one twisted person.. how the heck did you end up with the two gals in the first place.. If you need to ditch your first galfriend the best way would be to mentioned the other gal.. she will hate you for it but that the only way you can break up with her
2006-12-05 23:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know what to do about your first girlfriend, but as far as the one you like now, its better to start a relationship without lies, so i would tell her about it.
2006-12-05 23:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your first girlfriend that you just dont things are gonna work. Then get your other girlfriend and get the **** out of town.
2006-12-05 23:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her u just driffted a part and some one else got a hold of your heart and u had some good times with her and u cant be with her anymore
2006-12-06 01:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sick thanks for the 2 pts
2006-12-05 23:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋