I been with my boyfriend for atleast 2 months, and every since we started having sex he cumms so fast, He said that he doesnt understand what's wrong with him because he was not like that with his other girls, I dont know but I would like to know your opinions on this... And I'm not exaggerating It only takes him 1 min, As soon as it goes inside of me he takes it out cuz he's done, He's only 21 so I dont understand this and he's also a very healthy guy, he feels bad because he dont know what's happening he says is something he cant control... I think the best thing is for him to go to a Doctor, What do you think?
2006-12-05 15:07:22 · 3 answers · asked by xxMireyaxx 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
I mean it's really weird because I heard from friends that its ok for the first time to *** fast but then when you do it the second time that same moment you wont quict that fast but with my boyfriend we done it like 4 times that same moment and he always ends up cuming so but so fast....
2006-12-05 15:23:03 · update #1
Some people can never change this about themselves.
If you want things to last longer,.. make him think of things not as exciteing and hold his breath. Don't tease him and expect foreplay. Some guys try to imagain their favorite sport or their naked mother/grandmother lectureing to keep from getting too excited. There may also be something called "pre-***" involved,.. some people mistake it for *** (and it can get you pregnant like ***). You also might want to try being more physical and touching more while not haveing sex so he feels it's not as special and is use to you (not on days your going to have sex). Some guys have to masturbate before they are with a girl to keep from this problem happening immediately in sexual intercourse.
Added: Ignore your friends, they don't have the experience of every person in the Universe. It's a normal problem for some people.
2006-12-05 15:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be a different sensation with you then previous girls. You might want to try extended pleasure condoms. It might work more then nothing.
2006-12-05 23:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by lemonheadaddict 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called premature ejaculation. Lots of guys suffer from it. He can go to a doctor if he wants to, but I doubt it's anything really serious.
2006-12-05 23:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋