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There are several guys who are interested in having serious relationships with me...its only been since August since my husband passed so I definately am NOT looking to get married in the near future...but....should I start being more socially active? (in a respectable way, I'm a serious Christian, I ain't a ho)...

2006-12-05 14:59:39 · 7 answers · asked by herenthere 5 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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Go out in groups for awhile so you don't have pressure on you to start a relationship so soon after your husband's death. You're still in that "rebound" danger area after losing a loved one.

2006-12-05 15:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0 0

Make sure everyone understands that you will need at least two years to recover from the loss of your husband. Be socially active if you wish, but warn anyone who wants a serious relationship that it probably won't last. Serious friendships will always be treasured, so definitely let those blossom!

2006-12-05 23:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0 0

think of it like this.

are you going to be able to persue a respectable relationship without constantly comparing it to your and your husband's marriage?

if so, then i would say you're over it enough to go on. if not, allow yourself more time to heal. some people heal in a month, some people never get over it. it's just about how quickly you can recover, and dating so soon does not make you a bad person.

good luck.

2006-12-05 23:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by timmy b 3 · 0 0

I would take my time getting over your husband's passing first. After you heal from your husband I would start dating.

2006-12-05 23:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by candy_girl 2 · 0 0

Yes go have fun and enjoy but do it to respect your body..

2006-12-05 23:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 0 0

i would be caucious about jumping back into the dating scene until you have delt with the issue of your husbands death.

2006-12-05 23:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Only you know if you're ready. Follow your heart.

2006-12-05 23:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0 0

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