A lot of guys are being nice to me this year. Like the guys who were not so fond of me before. Especially this one guy, I dated his brother by the way, he never liked me for some reason, thought I was weird. Now everytime he sees me, he is soo nice to me almost as if he is trying to flirt. Why could this be?
2006-12-05 14:53:29 · 25 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way HE HATED ME WHEN I WAS WITH HIS BROTHER TOO! Now 2 years later his attitude changed! And all his friends are very nice to me too! I am not complainging but I am curious!
2006-12-05 14:54:48 · update #1
he's probably noticed that you've grown up quite a bit, and have gone from a cute little girl to a pretty young lady, and he's feeling differently about you now. the same thing happened to me, and when those guys who made fun of you and treated you mean start asking you out, just do what I did, and say no. if they didn't take into consideration anything but your looks, they're silly, and shallow, and they don't deserve your time! and they sure don't deserve the privilege of getting a date with you! you don't have to be mean to them, that's not what I'm saying. just don't date any of them, because they truly don't deserve you.
Take Care of Yourself.
2006-12-05 15:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anybody can change and maybe he has the hots 4 u if he is being really nice then maybe you shood talk 2 him about it remember god forgives u 4 every bad thing u do if u ask 4 forgivness give him a chance 2 say sorry or apoligize 1st then u might wanna start up a friendship or even a little bit more than that gl with it
2006-12-05 14:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are very hard to explain especially if your not one but i can say time changes the person with time all things look new different in some way and may in his eyes you become a beautiful woman and he is a few years older and more grown up
2006-12-05 14:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by bigsexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they found out what a great person you are or maybe you look better to them now for some reason. OR maybe they have grown up and are realizing that you are the kind of gal they want to be with.
2006-12-05 14:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by dawndmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I no this one, and deep down i'm sure you do. At school i was bullied by a lad, constantly he made my life hell. Well it has been some years since then and he has admitted to me he had a huge crush but didn't no how to deal with it. Men are funny things but trust me, thats what it is!
2006-12-05 14:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by vixen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm...it could be because he realized what a jerk he was and wants to make it up. No...wait...guys aren't that intelligent. Maybe he liked you therefore made fun of you (typical guy thing) and got no respond from you so is now trying a different approach.
2006-12-05 14:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As we mature, we change our attitudes. He is obviously seeing you in a different light and is not acting like a child anymore.
2006-12-05 14:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain with what has got here about in his existence, not feeling he's loved with techniques from his mom and dealing with puberty he confident has taken your love for him the incorrect way. this is going to be a troublesome one to address with him. only save affirming your love for him is not in any respect sexual and only wish he also sees it this way. confident can understand your component to this yet I also see his section. i wager if he replaced into of legal age it does not be such of a situation and ought to easily be boys being boys. If he does spend the nighttime you in elementary words have save affirming that certain you want him yet not sexually and that you will be there for him with a warmth cuddle if he desires one yet no sexual sex. astonishing you've taken him lower than your wing yet he desires a truth examine related to sex. a lot of youthful females who go with the help of what he has use sex to assist restoration issues, as sex provides exhilaration they imagine it will make their previous bypass away and on the grounds that it appears like he perhaps gay he's doing the exact same. this is going to likely be the feeling of being loved or feeling someone particular and sex is only used as a device to get it or save that feeling.
2016-11-30 04:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by mrotek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me. Some guys say they hate you, make fun of you, blah blah blah because in truth, they like you. It just takes them awhile to get their feelings straight and...well I guess this is his time now. He might have been jealous so he said those things or something like that.
2006-12-05 14:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have matured and reaized he was wrong, or just got over whatever was bothering him. And it goes the same way, maybe you grew up and now he sees you differently.
2006-12-05 14:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋