If your boyfriend/girlfriend gave you a present,
and yall arent together anymore.. do you still think about that person when you see the gift, or go to use it????? or does it depend on how the relationship ended??
2006-12-05 14:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by erika c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on who you are, how sensitive you are. I think it's a gift, from God if we remember old friends.
I still have things my good friend gave me years ago, and I think of how she might be doing. Perhaps if you see the thing you're referring to, you should give them a call and just say hi?
I believe in synchronicity, which means that sometimes things happen for a reason, and perhaps you're supposed to get in touch with your friend again, just because they will always be your friend, and they may need cheering up. How can you know without reaching out to them?
2006-12-05 14:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Golfcarmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the item still brings up the person in question. Case and point: I am married now to a wonderful man. The other day, I went into my jewelry box, and found something from my ex - I thought of him immediately. Not in a fond or even hateful way, but I clearly remember getting this ring from him.
Answer your question?
2006-12-05 22:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will still wear it or use it and that matter all that counts is the gift not the person unless I am very jmad about the person and then I might give it away to someone or I will trash it.
2006-12-05 22:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by D'Asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what the gift was. If it was a favorite perfume or cologne, yes, it would bring thoughts of the other person. If it was a silverware set or something general like that, then no.
2006-12-05 22:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think about that person. I'm just sentimental in that way.
Seeing the gift might trigger a feeling of sadness from a sense of loss and sometimes it might trigger a positive memory and a happy moment that we might have shared.
2006-12-05 22:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Spandito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what the ex feels, be grateful and thankful towards them. This'll let them know that you appreciate them and it will improve your relationship regardless of how your more intimate relationship ended. If you like her, but don't know if she feels the same, try giving her a gift as well, and learn from her reaction.
2006-12-05 22:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by tdavis179@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still think about the person who gave it to me, but I have a habit of giving back what was given to me for exactly that reason. I don't want to think about someone I broke up with. :)
2006-12-05 22:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lori E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he/she was being nice and wanted that person to know that he/she cared about them but in not that way. Might have to do with how the relationship ended if it ended badly.
2006-12-05 22:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it would depend...cuz if i still miss him, then im always gonna think about him any time (until im totally over it) i look at anything that has to do with him...but if i broke it of, and he gave me a give, i wouldnt really think about him when i use it
2006-12-05 22:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I would
nobody gave me anything before or after my wife though so I don't really know I guess
2006-12-05 22:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋