Not that many places to go Movies a few good resturants, give some good answers please.
2006-12-05 14:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by spudge352000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First dates are pretty stressful, because both people are self conscious, hoping to make a good impression, etc. Best thing is to take out as much anxiety and pressure as you can.
Pick an activity that you both enjoy, but one that also lends itself to conversation while you are doing it... say mini-golf, pool, etc. You both are doing something, so you don't have to be trying to talk all the time, and it's fun. Hard to be stressed when you are doing something you find enjoyable, and it's easier to be yourself.
I hate the idea of eating on a first date, because if you go to a restaurant and have a wait to get your food, all in that time span there is just you two there at the table, and a great deal of pressure to say something and keep talking. Why put yourself through that?
Movies are good, but only as an add on after you've had a fun "talking" activity.
2006-12-05 14:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cruel Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Movies are not a good idea, because you can't talk and get to know each other. Dinner is ok, but I think hiking would be better. Do something where you can really spend time together and talk and see each other in different situations.
2006-12-05 14:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dianne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To a nice restaurant and bowling afterwards. That way you two won't feel like you'll have to make a move in the movie theatre. You can talk and get to know eachother and laugh at how you play at the bowling alley.
2006-12-05 14:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go on a hike, or a picnic thats always cute. Or do something sporty. Like do mini golf or play frisbee or go on a bikeride together.
2006-12-05 14:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by MellyMel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well since it's winter how about ice skating or skiing. Bowling is another good date..
2006-12-05 14:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her go-cart riding or to a amusement park, win her a teddy bear..Dinner is nice too..
2006-12-05 14:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A walk in the park is ALWAYS nice
2006-12-05 14:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dinner at a buffet, followed by going to a party or dancing...the idea is to talk.
2006-12-05 14:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when she want's a second date
2006-12-05 14:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
any place you can talk openly and truthfully
2006-12-05 14:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by wil_t52 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋