I have a female friend of about 3 yrs.She was with someone when I first met her and all of us were friends and would hang out all the time.I always had a little crush on her but I knew how they felt about each other so I never tried to get in between them.She called me one night and told me they had broken up and she wanted to chill.We hung out all night into the morning.She ended up having to go to work but before she left I told her that I had a crush on her and thought she was very attractive,she smiled.Well the time came for me to go to work.I got dropped off at and was getting ready to go in and I heard somebody running towards me.I look back andthere are 6 police officers comeing my way.They put hand cuffs on me and told me I was under arrest for some stuff I didnt even do.During my time in jail we got to know each other through letters.I got out and we started hanging out again.We had sex a few times but she told me before,no relationship.Now I cant stop thinking about her.help
2006-12-05 13:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to move on, you already blew the relationship by going to jail and if she said no raltionship then NO means NO
2006-12-05 14:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she really likes your friendship, and having sex with you. That's how heartbreaking relationships can be. Since you told her how you felt, she is showing obvious signs, that she doesn't want a relationship with you. And sex does make feelings go even deeper. I tell you what, if you still want her, don't have sex with her. If she longs for you, then she actually wants you. If not, start looking out there. There are a lot of over looked people waiting for you!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-05 14:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More information please...why were you arrested? Did she file charges? Did you appear drunk and disorderly. You said someone dropped you off, so it wasn't that you were driving so there could be no violation there. Do you have warrants? I guess I just want you to fill in the blanks.
2006-12-05 14:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something that you love most. Thinking about her will hurt you even more. I know how you feel but you need to say to yourself that she is just your friend. if you want her to feel good, don't risk it. Go with the flow.
2006-12-05 14:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by inna2507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eek....so she has sex with you, but doesnt want a relationship? wow! whats up with that? talk t her about it! because you are just wasting your body and your time if shes just going to ditch you later or something. if she doesnt want a relationship then why pursue one with her (i know that hurts and it sounds mean, but its better than living in a world of hurt later)
2006-12-05 14:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not going 2 ready all that. that some advice
2006-12-05 13:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by demon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should take her into consideration cause u have her too now.
not only ur self.
2006-12-05 13:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋