Sometimes I'll be with a girl I like, who doesn't know I like her, and I'll get "excited" making it difficult to hug her or even stand up without her noticing. Or other times I'll be slow dancing with someone and it'll happen, and I can't dance closer without them noticing. I can't help it, and can't stop it, and it's really embaressing. Help!
2006-12-05 13:41:43 · 17 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, from a girl's point of view ... we like it! Stop worrying, it's completely normal and healthy.
2006-12-05 14:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen to me at least 100 times. All the times I felt emberrased, trying hard not to be noticable. From 15-30 there really is nothing you can do about this, except for not thinking about sex.
Impossible when you are slow dancing though.
2006-12-05 14:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As an old lady of 48 lemme tell you honey, It's not as noticable to the girl as it is to you. I have felt my share of them in my time and I never failed to feel a little flattered. Never.
This is something I think other guys will tell you. It's going to happen. Try not to stress over it and it will subside on it's own.
It's normal, it's part of a guy's life, you're healthy, you're normal. You may feel bad about it, but really, try not to, try to relax.
The girl won't mention it if she has any class. So go ahead and dance, and hug and when you get a clear move, turn around but please don't worry. Soon enough it will stop being so uncontrolable. Promise
2006-12-05 13:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when at dances and ur freaking or slow dancing with a girl its not that bad if u get a hard on cuz like, we girls kinda expect it. some may react to it tho, so dont think its okay all the time. as for the times when its really inappropriate like seeing her or hugging her, you just gotta start thinking about something else like sports or something. get your mind off of it. maybe u need to relieve urself more at home b4 u go out.
2006-12-05 13:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably just have to wait it out until you get older and your hormones settle down a bit.
2006-12-05 13:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry around a vile of cold water when you feel like you are getting excited pour it down your pants. it will work man try it
2006-12-05 13:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the probem? If you let yourself lightly brush against her, she might also get exited. You know what that might lead to.
2006-12-05 13:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to control it...these are things young guys teach themselves...one is to not get erections when they don't want them...and the other is to maintain an erection as long as desired...
2006-12-05 13:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can relate to that bec. my bf is like that too. kinda irritating though but he said its hard to stop it so what he did is he just imagine any cartoon character to divert his attention.
2006-12-05 13:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by rea del rosario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how old are you? 12 years old?
2006-12-05 13:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by SpeedySteel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋