do u believe guys when they say " I LOVE U" the first day your start going out?

Question

u think they just wanna hit and leave, don't u??? cause that's just how i feel... boys are dog to me because they lie to you and tell you what u wanna hear in order to get in your pants than after that they dump you... that " I LOVE U" don't work on me at all 2 to 3 month before u can even see my tong color... i think thats what we gurlz shoul do

Answer 1

Absoluely not! I actually lose all respect for them and general don't have a second date. Obviously they don't love you, because they don't even know the real you. They may love your appearance and the tiny little bit of your personality they know, but nothing deeper than that. You know that who you are is WAY more than just surface appearances; after all, if you got run over by a big mac truck tomorrow, you certianlly wouldn't look the same as you do now, but deep down inside, would you really be a different person? I think we all know you are still you deep down, but would that guy still tell you he loved you right off the bat?

You sound like a very smart woman! Keep it up!

Answer 2

lol when you like somebody it doesn't matter what they say, so you really don't need to write all that stuff. We get the point. What you should do is change things in your favor. The grass is greener on the other side, applys to you. Don't think the grass is greener on the other side, don't dump your boyfriend for somebody whose flimsy. Id say keep your boyfriend and your best friend. And tell him you will think about a relationship maybe when you get done. Sounds terrible, but hey people have partners fill out prenuptial agreements saying "if we get divorced. blah blah bla", so why not tell him "if my boyfriend and i aren't together". I guess its wrong to have those feelings for another guy. But nobody is perfect. And this way you have the upper hand. Cause obviously he has the upper hand and hes not being responsible with it. That's why i hate for anybody to have the upper hand over me. Cause they usually abuse it.

Answer 3

Oh! Please you are anger! Cool down!

See... guys are guys, and girls are girls;
you must accept we are different!

I say "I love u' to girls in first meeting too, what is wrong with that?

LOVE has certain degrees it may start from one to hundred!

I thinks when I see a girl for the first time, as far as, I have no knowledge of her or any past bad experience, when I tell her
'I love u' the degree of my love is about 30, if she be a type of girl that I love
then my love degree is keep going up until 100 is the time that I would knee before her and ask her "Would u please become my Queen for ever..."

And if after I met her for few time, her action not be proper, my love degree for decrease to ZERO were I would say 'Sorry we can't be friend anymore'
IF she be abusive, then, in sudden, my Love would change to hate!

Further, why you think that guys want to 'get in your pants'
Are you suggesting that you don't enjoy;
IF you enjoy then where is a complaint;
IF you don;t enjoy, then you have to seek medical treatment!

Answer 4

You are right! It is good to be cynical sometimes and always be cautious but at the same time try to keep an openmind because maybe you'll assume he's only after one thing when really he actually does like you. Stay cautious but give guys a chance at least, you don't have to put out until you want too... afterall it's your body and your heart they'll be breaking. There's no crime in waiting and getting to know someone... if he can't respect that's what you want then cut him loose.

Answer 5

listen any body who would believe someone who says i love u the first day u started dating is a complete DUMBA**...unless u have known that person for a while would be the only exception...if your dumb a nough to have sex with someone just cause they tell u they love u...then u derseve be used like that...i mean if your that stupid u r RETARDED...hey and don't just put it on the guys...girls do it to...they might not use the same method but they do it to...you all know u do, so don't lie...well any way have a good day.

Answer 6

You mite be rite dis time!
Men say things because they sound good. They barely even know you. But girl when things like this start happening. I say ME 2. And then later on in the relationship when he actually might love you. I still don't tell him I love him. I will say I Love You but I'm no In LOVE with you, it works everytime.

Answer 7

Hell no, i honestly dont think that guys feel love for a girl when its only been a while, its an attraction....and what u say is true, its great that u actually think about it.....i know perhaps the dumbest girls that fall for their little game and end up pregos....seriously some girls are just so ****** stupid ....seriously they give it all on the first couple of "i love you's" because no one ever taught them to say no to sex.......

Answer 8

Not tru for all us GUYS some of us are pure gentlemen. And consider you might be the first person he's fallen in love with and doesn't know exaclty what the hell he is saying. Or he could be immature and is just saying it

Answer 9

i think, your half right. most of them do lie to you and tri to get in your panst but, your the one who lets them. when they say they love you dont tell them u love them back cuz then they know there plan is working. and dont sleep with them! i made me man wait 3 months before we even kissed! i wanted to kno he wouldnt leave me, and now we've been together for a little over a year.

Answer 10

yeah i always have a problem w/ all these guys either saying the absolute sweetest things (just to find out later they wanna get w/ me) or they say the sickest most perverted things. ugh i've decided that i'm not gonna believe everything i hear from guys unless we're already good friends and stuff so yeah.