Heyif any one can give me a good answer I need help with my feelings I kinda of like this guy but I don't want to put all my trust in him I have a hard time trusting people but I really like him I don't mind the thought of having sex I never had it before so I am like not wanting to i know he wants to do it and I am not so sure I don't want to get hurt and evrey one says your first time hurts is that true
2006-12-05 13:34:36 · 6 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust: Reliance on something in the future; hope.
C'mon baby girl give this some more thought. You said you "kinda" like this guy and now your thinking about having sex with him for your "first time?" Please be careful.....don't ruin your young life by ending up pregnant or maybe get STDs. Take your time.....you have your whole life ahead of you.
Trust, you say....well let me tell you this: In life there are no guarantees!
To answer your last question: Yes and No....for some girls the first time is painful and for others no.
2006-12-05 13:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be ready and comfortable don't be forced or just do it because it is either the trend or he forced you to!! It will hurt for the first time but you have to try to stay relaxed and calm!! As time goes on it will become less and less painfull!!
2006-12-05 22:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to put "all of your trust in him", You certainly should not let him put anything in you. Wait for the right guy at the right time.
2006-12-05 21:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it kinda of hurt but that depand on your partner. If he really use force it will really hurt but if he done it slowly it will not hurt at all. remember if you are not ready don,t do it there will be time that you on to it. Good luck
2006-12-05 21:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! Don't do it! Your virginity is a one time gift that can only be given to one person, so save it for the person you will spend your life with. alwaays remember you are worth waiting for!!
2006-12-05 21:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by 1-4-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont feel comfortable dont do it. do it with the person who u love
2006-12-05 21:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋