What do you think I should do?

Question

I like this woman at work(just so you know we work in a supermarket). The problem is that she already has a man and shes like in her mid to late 20s and I’m 19. I know the best thing would be to keep quiet, but its hard cuz we work together. We become pretty good friends at work. I always help her and she helps me and we talk a lot, sometimes too much. Its torturing me working so close to a woman who I like so much. Would it be so bad if she did find out I like her? What do you think I should do?

Answer 1

Its going to be very awkward if you tell her your feelings and she doesnt feel the same way back coz you have to work with her all the time. She has a partner, leave her be. If she wanted you she would of let you know by now. Age doesnt really come into this but you made it a point which indicates your attraction to her may be because shes older. Go out and have fun dude, your young... live it up! Dont obsess about someone who is taken.

Answer 2

Well lets see here you like this girl alot, she has a man, older than you, and dont know u like her? Well hun if you talk to her alot and you like her as much as you say and how I can understand it then she can see that you like her too. if she has a man id stay out of it or tell her look i know we work together but being friends with you and getting to know u, i have really come to like u and i know u have a man and all but i cant help how i feel. see where it goes from there i mean who knows she might feel the same way. Your still young theres still more women out there its not bad that shes older you just dont know how she feels about u or her man u need to find out how she feels about u and him tell her how u feel but let her know that u know she has a man and all but u cant help it if u dont its gunna tear u apart and make u go insane cuz it could be that she likes u to and playing hard to get.

Answer 3

Don't break up a relationship. If anything, be her friend-and nothing sexual.

You really shouldn't be dating or wanting to date someone from work. It can get pretty messy.

Answer 4

It could be a good thing because she may like you back and be afriad to admit that she does. But tell her slowly, maybe casually. But if you really like her then tell her, the worst that could happen is that she doesn't like you and she told her man.

Answer 5

Be broadminded about it, there's nothing wrong for your to share your interest. Before you go further, you may start asking the girl about her affair with her current guy and so on, from here you may predict whether in anyways she sounds interest in you. Don't feel bad about it, it's ok to share your idea's and feelings to your opposite sex.

Answer 6

well i dont think you should straight out tell her because then it might ruin her current relationship with her boyfriend and it seems as if your the kind of person who wouldn't want to do that. But if your feelings for her grow and you think they are genuine that maybe you should tell her.

Answer 7

Tell her. You never know, she may not be happy in her current situation. He could be temporary. Seasonal. You could be her lifetime guy. If you don't do it, it may be something on your list of "what ifs" in life. Age means nothing as long as your mature (and legal).

Answer 8

I don't think it would be bad for her to know you like her but....
You may not like her as much anymore after you tell her. I'd keep it to myself.

Plus, you don't want to interfer with her man, that's just wrong.

Answer 9

first u have to find out how serious the relationship between her and her boyfriend is then after u can judge if u have a chance

Answer 10

i think she is comfortable with you as a friend...you may need to admire her from afar, since you says she already has someone..if you approach her, and she dosen't feel the same, you may scare her off....good luck..it is hard to be friends only with someone you are attracted to that is already taken..