Hi. So I have a dilema. I was dating this guy and we got into a big arguement and didn't talk for like a week, one day, my friends told me that he had gotten into a car wreck. He got into the wreck the day we were arguing... I left some pretty hateful voice messages on his phone, texted him everything in the time period before I found out about his accident.. I've tried to call him over and over again but he never calls back. One of my friends said that she ask him about it and he know's i'm calling him but he's not going to accept my calls... I don't know if I should just get some guts and go to the hospital to see him or what... He's been there for a month, he'll be there for two more... please help!!
2006-12-05 13:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by ~*~That Silly Oto...~*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the main reasons I'm not going out htere and haven't already is that he wrecked the day we were arguing... shortly after we talked, and I feel to blame for his wreck and I think he might feel that way too... like he got so mad about our arguement that he started driving extra stupid and lost control
2006-12-05 13:35:43 · update #1
You didn't cause his accident so don't feel guilty. If he wanted to talk to you he would have by now. He sounds stubborn. If he does not want to forgive and forget...OK...but don't go " crawling" to see him at the Hospital after repeatedly trying to get in touch with him.
2006-12-05 13:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say he is still ur bf, though the relationship is not as good as before the wreck. I hope that u can bring urself and see him, not for urself of being guilty but for him as u love him and u didnt know what was happening that day.
Nobody is perfect, go see him and make an apologize, whether he will take ur pardon or not, as long as u hv tried to be the best in this situation. Good luck, dear!
2006-12-05 21:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a card and explain, you had no idea he was in an accident,
and you did not mean all the really hateful things you said, (unless you actually did), then maybe send a plant, or a balloon to his room, then try calling again, or perhaps a visit. I am sure he feels really hurt at this time, both physically and mentally.
2006-12-05 21:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to the hospital. You should tell him that you are sorry that this happened and feel horrible about what you said to him. I think going there to say you are sorry face to face is the best way.
2006-12-05 21:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think taht you should go over there and see him. if you feel that its your fault, talk to him and make it beter. Im sure that youd REALY make him feel better. Also, you didnt cause the accident. People make decisions on their own and his was a stupid one.. he caused it,no u
2006-12-05 21:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt your fault first of all I bet the house on that. Plus the dude is dumb not to take advantage of the situation and milk u for all your worth .. I would take you to the guilt cleaners with this one . dump him he's not what men stand for; pimpin broads
2006-12-05 22:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by As Good As I Once Was 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go visit him at the hospital for sure girl, otherwise u may live the rest of your life in regret. i know its gonna be heaps hard but gather that courage!! and make sure that ur calm at the hospital.
GOOD LUCK!!!!! :)
2006-12-05 21:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweet r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should deffineatly go and see him at the hospital. hes not going to call you and you need to talk about it
2006-12-05 21:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be your best best to see him in person.
2006-12-05 21:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go urself n c him
2006-12-05 21:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by xXtheemo1Xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋