How should I ask out a girl I rarely talk to?

Question

She is in one of my classes and I don't know her that well but I value the time we talk to each other and I don't want to take too slow.

Answer 1

If you don't know her that well, how do you know that you want to ask her out? If you have enjoyed the brief conversations you've had and want to get to know her better as a person, then say, "I'd really like to talk about this some more, can I call you some time?" Or you can also offer your number to her.

If you really like and respect her as a person, then you shouldn't have a problem with "taking it slow", but you don't want to appear disinterested, either. So once you get her number, get to know if she really is someone you want to go out with. If so, then when you get a sense that she likes you too, just ask if she wants to get together sometime, and what might she like to do? If you center it around her interests and what will make her feel comfortable, you will have a better chance that she will accept.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Take my situation for example. There was this guy in my class that I rarely talked to. One day he was near my desk talking to the guy next to me. I started talking about how much I was craving a certain type of food, so the guy asked me if i wanted to go out to eat after class. I said yes, even though we ended up going two weeks later. it turned into a date.....Either start a convo with her and what she's into or offer to go with her some where. For example if she's talkin about a new movie she wants to see, ask her is she would like to go with you. It doesnt have to be a date

Answer 3

Im dealing with the same thing. I really am . And what i realized. Is that even tho u might like her. and not really have much to back it up becuase u dont talk to her that much. This is going to take u time. U really need to get to know her much more before you do anything. So gradually and smoothly get closer to her in a friendly way. Then think about your next move. i thought it wus the best way to go about it. but u know. chat wit her about all kinds of stuff. dont talk to much lol. oh yeah and sum guy under me said make fun of other people. that was a way that i got to know a girl really well in the past lol. i know its teririble lol. but yeah man u'll do it rite im sure.

good luck

Answer 4

Well, you can start out by saying hello very polite every day,,,then move on to having little conversations here and there with her,,,,(but dont do it too much because then she will think you are creeepy),,,,and then one day when there is a good movie out, ask her out on a date. No matter how many times you rehearse it, its not going to come out that way when you ask her. So dont have any formats, just do it. Be your self, and make her feel comfortable around you.

Answer 5

She might feel the same about you, but you shouldn`t just ask her out. You see, I`m not sure how it is for guys, but for girls, friends` opinions count a lot while judging guys. There are so many perverted jerks out there, that if you ask her out when you rarely talk to her, her friends will tell her that you`re a player. She`ll probablly believe them, and then she might not WANT to talk to you anymore.

Answer 6

so u want to ask out a girl u dont know that well and rarely talk to?
in my opinion is thatt u should do is take is slowly, take one step at a time cuz u shouldent go from point A or B to L,
i think that once u know the girl and talk to her more its smarter to ask her out(just my opinion)

GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 7

I would just start introducing yourself. Then maybe asking her to sit by you or her at lunch and then it will slowing start blooming. I had a guy do this to me. and we have been together for 2 years. trust me on this, just take a chance and you might have a girlfriend soon.
Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

Well you shouldn't rush things. Take your time to know her and ask her one day if you guys can have lunch together. Get to know her a little bit more and maybe, just maybe you can ask her if she would like to go to the movies or something. There is a pretty good chance she'll say yes because you took your time to know her. Good Luck!

Hope this helps!

shawna. =)

Answer 9

1st find out if she has a boyfriend b/c if she dos what’s the point
2nd start speaking to her like in the 2nd week of speaking to her taker out to the moves or something (as a friend )
Then from there dinner then ask her if she wants to be girl boy friends

Answer 10

Try talking to her more and see if she would want to catch a movie with you sometime. Be causal and cool about. The worse she could say is no.