last weedend me n my friend beccawent over to our friends celestes house.....celestes lil bro is beccas boyfriend.while we were over thereme and becca went into celestes room to hide from her bf. while we were hiding he found me(i was on the bed) he started 2 try to kiss me and feel up my skirt(becca was still hiding and watching the whole thing)i was all like "stop u have a girlfriend"-and "no don't do that"she got up and stormed out of the room the boy still on me.he asked why not and i was like u r going out with my bestfrined. he got upa nd stormed out too.
the problemo is that i really like him and becca does 2 he is cute and she is allways jelouse......i dont flirt or anything! she has a vibe that im trying to steal him!!!!!!!
but today was a dance and i was dancing with myfriend hannah and i saw him staring at me like stalker staring i gave him a look nd he turned away.but the more i cant be with him the more i want him badly.......what do i do???
2006-12-05 13:09:15 · 31 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An appropriate rule to ALWAYS follow is that when a boy or man enters a room where you are on a bed is to immediately arise and leave the room! If he wants to talk to you, he can do so in a neutral area. It can protect you from rape, behavior you may later regret, STDs, and, also, ultimately protects the male from a girl or woman accusing him of assault even if, at the time, it was consensual.
Another rule is to behave in such a manner that you will not bring sorrow to your friend.
2006-12-05 13:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you are crazy in not for anyone to determine in this case...the real question is whether your freindship with Becca is important enough to save or do you just stomp on her...that is a decision that you will have to make and live with...let your heart tell you what to do, not the fleeting moment of passion which you could end up looking back at later in life and regretting..also keep in mind that if he is so willing to do this to his present girlfriend, he will probably do it again and again no matter who he is with...also remember what goes around comes around...take this advice from someone who is almost half a century old...with age comes wisdom...and it is the duty of the wise to help others...just think about it...the fire is warm from a distance, but get to close and you WILL get burned...hope this helps...good luck to you.
2006-12-05 21:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple. You will probably have more than a few boyfriends in your life, but good friends are really hard to come by....So if she is a really good friend cool your jets, and be her friend....If she is and acquaintance you can steel her boyfriend, but I wouldn't want a guy who is dating one girl and flirting and hitting on me too. Where is your dignity and your self esteem? That's the real question here....Tell him to get lost, Now! He doesn't think much of you if he wants to cheat with you and still be with her....Have some self respect and stand up for yourself, and telling him no and stop but you still remaining on the bed is not standing up for yourself...that is why your friend stormed off. You really weren't letting him know that you meant no. This guy will only use you and let you go.....Try to get to know some guy who thinks, reads, maybe even a cute nerd....He'll be good to you, and he has a bright future....THINK!
2006-12-05 21:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh girl! YES - you r CRAZY. (Not to sound mean, of course.) FRIENDS r way more important than guys. Guys will come and go, but this is ur best friend ur talking about. Don't screw that up! NO GUY is worth that. Not even one u have a crush on. Trust me 2, if this guy is so willing to cheat on her, what's to say he won't do the same 2 u if u do pay some attention to him. He clearly is just a PLAYER.
2006-12-05 21:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by ktoffer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U always want hings that u cant hav. But do u really want to break up ur friendship with becca over a guy?
2006-12-05 21:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
English Please.
Ingles Por Favor
2006-12-05 21:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Work Hard, Make Money, Enjoy Life... 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
even if he looks good and he's nice and all -- it's not worth losing your best friend over. best friends last a life time - guys come and go. like that saying goes: "guys are a dime a dozen" (that works the same for girls too). think of it like this........you and your bestfriend and take your best friend's boyfriend........how do you know he won't try that with one of your other friends?? how would you feel? he's not the only hotty around honey. i say stick with your best friend - you will meet other cute and nice guys. good luck to you.
2006-12-05 21:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him. That is so uncool to do to your friend and besides would you really want to be with a guy that is kissing other girls and has a girlfriend. Oh what you don't think he will do that to you?
2006-12-05 21:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be a friend like you are and wait. At least wait a month then ask her if she would mind you dating him. But if its going to ruin your friend ship hes not worth it. your young and boys will come and go. But giid friends are hard to find. Good luck
2006-12-05 21:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by danlynnhunterkaleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your best friend is dating him you just need to try to stop likeing him the best you can... for the courtesy of your best friend. you know that you wouldnt like it if you had a boyfriend and your best friend liked him and wanted him too! its just a fair thing. but you did do the right thing when you told him to get off you.... but you should have like threw him off and not just sat there while he did it! yeah you said stop but you didnt like try to get up or anything! thats probably what made your friend really mad
2006-12-05 21:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋