Okay the problem i am having is that my baby daddy is telling me that he wants to kill his self cuz i am pregnant he doesnt want a kid right now. i really dont either but i believe that if i can lay down to make the baby then i have to deal with the consquences. NO ABORTION !!!! the thing is that he says that if i dont have an abortion then he is going to kill his self ? What do i do PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME???????
2006-12-05 12:56:16 · 16 answers · asked by dee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Tell him to go on with his own life. Its your body, you keep the baby if that what you want to do, there is also the choice of adoption. He is jus being melodramtic.
2006-12-05 12:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would tell him to do whatever he wanted because you were going to keep the baby. I would give up my baby for any man no matter how much I loved him. He shouldn't make you choose. He knew what the consquences were before he had sex with you he should have used protection if he didn't want to have a child. I say take care of your child and forget about him. I don't think he would kill himself over having a child that would be stupid.
2006-12-05 21:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by teddybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser, he obviously didn't have a problem making that baby. Just tell him to go on with his life. He obviously is not a man or mature enough to handle anything like this. You will be fine. Don't have an abortion, if you don't want the baby let a couple that can't have kids adopt youor baby and give it a good life. Not that you can't I am just saying, abortion is a sin.Good luck.
2006-12-05 21:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by jmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several things, are you still together? I would call his family or authorities. If he feels that strongly then tell him to hit the road and you won't put a name on the fathers line at the hospital and he won't have any obligations. Or tell him you'll get the abortion and tell him that its over, stay away from him and maybe he'll think someone else got you pregnant if he did see you. I think if he is acting that childish, you can find someone a little better. Remembers there are always sperm donors and then there are DADDYS. Anyone can be a daddy as long as they take the responsibility and love faithfully.
2006-12-05 21:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave him. you cannot control what choices he makes for his own life and welfare, and you certainly cant bring a child into that situation.
He's a very selfish person, and has no business being part of this childs life, beyond paying child support.
Anyone who would try to control another person by threatening to take their own life is total scum and should not be with you.
Let his parents know what he's threatening, let his friends know what he's said, and then leave him. You cannot be responsible for that sort of behavior from him, but you can certainly be responsible for the baby in you.
2006-12-05 21:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously he is trying to scare you into gettin an abortion so he doesnt have to grow up, if you honestly believe that you are making the right decision by keep this baby, just tell him he is going to have to grow up and be a man. but you can always consider adoption. think about it and best wishes
2006-12-05 21:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by hotfunlovinggirl2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice your body. Keep the baby, he is just threatening you to scare you into abortion. I am sure he is all talk. He needs to be a man and face the responsibility of what he has done. Good luck.
2006-12-05 21:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought of Adoption? There are Millions of people who can't have a baby and really want one. They are on lists just waiting to adopt.
If you really don't want a child yet and he doesn't either, maybe it's the best solution for all 3 of you.
2006-12-06 16:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by kittynala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. If you give his address and relay that he is threatening suicide, they can by law enter into his home, and take him to the nearest psychiatric hospital. I've had to do this with a couple of clients I work with. He may hate you now for it, but later in life when he is successful and happy, he will thank you for it. Plus, you don't have to tell him it was you if you don't want, and the police do not have to divulge your name to him.
2006-12-05 22:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt choose an abortion b/c of his immaturity. Tell him that you are keeping the baby and he can do what he wants.
2006-12-05 21:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by sweet2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋