im in 9th grade....plz help!!!
2006-12-05 12:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by Blue Panda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Don't dress out of your character....meaning don't dress like a slut, then he'll have another opinion of you....that you're easy. Remember, if you put out an ad....someone will answer it....and usually not to your liking. Again, just be yourself and go and approach him. If he's not interested in you, then it's his loss. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-05 12:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just need to change ur mentality so that u can see the Positive things instead of the Negatives.
the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, and being able to talk and flirt with your CRUSH!! etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-12-07 18:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, confident, intelligent, smile, dress cute and show him that you're strong(not in the rough kinda way). Guys know what they are looking for, so if it's a particular guy in mind, talk to him a little to show him that you can be sociable and not shy all the time, but also that you can get what you set out for.
2006-12-05 20:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortantly to guys I'm too outgoing! So dont be SOOOOO out there that you get annoying like me. Be the type of girl who is social but doesnt get herself into trouble cuz she talks too much!
2006-12-05 20:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easiest thing to do is smile at him constantly. Later on you can use some excuse to talk to him (even if it isn't true). A good one is, "Hey, don't you live by me"?
2006-12-05 20:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would talk to him and invite him to do something with you on the weekend like movies,beach,any parties that are happening ang and then i am sure you will get to know him better
2006-12-05 20:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the same problem too...you should always keep a smile on your face....and try to talk a bit more...every bit helps. good luck!
2006-12-05 20:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by i <3 xou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start hanging out around him and slowly let him get to know you.
2006-12-05 20:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act your self and try to start a conversation with him but play cool.
2006-12-05 20:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sexii_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should be ur self if nobody likes u that's their fault. u can't just decide to show ur self.
2006-12-05 20:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by pammypiano56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋