There is this guy who likes me. I don't like his at all but he has been trying to ask me out for about a month. He is a very nice person but I still don't like him. Whenever he tries to ask me to be his girlfriend i change the conversation and talk about something else. Please tell me what I can do or how to tell him I don't like him.
2006-12-05 12:33:17 · 23 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say no.
2006-12-05 12:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest its going to hurt his feelings no mater what,.... the next time he does it listen to what he has to say and just be truthful with him... the more you beat around the bush, the hope you give him... its true you can say no in a very nice way many times and for some reason guys dont get it.... so your best bet is to say "Hey i really am flattered that you think im such a cool person and you wanna date me, but please understand that i amnot into you that way. I think you are a really nice guy but i just dont have those same feelings for you.." if you gets mad at you or says something crude dont worry about, cause he isnt as nice a guy as you thought.... yeah his pride will be hurt and he may take a few days to talk to you again but keep say hi and ask how he is ... to let him know that friendship is still there....
good luck
and again say it who every you want but theres a good start!
2006-12-05 20:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him... by you just changing the subject he takes it as you being shy or playing hard to get. Your leading him down a road of no hope tell him. And if he can't handle it then there's something wrong and it's best that you didn't like him away. It is as simple as the old saying "you win some you lose some" He just didn't win this time, but better luck to him and the next women.
2006-12-05 20:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by southernsoul57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are in the position, so have I and it is never easy. Try to make the point that you don't like him. And if he doens't get the point, then I don't knwo what to tell you sorry. If he thinks that you don't like him cause of a certain thing that he can't help. Like facal or body structures, if you don't care then point that out right away. DON"T LIE! (Same thing happened to me) And try to make the conversation as pleasent as possible. And keep it from other people. (talk away from every one else)
Good Luck
2006-12-05 21:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its awful when you want to let someone down without hurting their feelings but you must act now imagine what its like for him a thousand different ways of asking you out all in his head and he likes you so much he hasn't plucked up the courage yet after a month i bet the poor lad isn't getting much sleep with dreams of you filling his head well i think the best thing is to write him a small note saying this....... i have a feeling you like me and i dont want to hurt you re feelings has i think you are a very nice guy and i wish the chemistry on my part was there but it isn't again i am sorry and i do hope i am wrong about my intuition of you re feelings for me because i feel it would be wrong to string you along hope we can be Friends.........or if you dont feel comfortable writing to him then give him a friendly chat over the phone to save embarrassment :)
2006-12-05 20:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't you like the guy? If it's something you really can't put your finger on it go out with him once and get it over with. He could turn out the be something you would have never expected.
If you really don't want to deal with him then just keep telling him you are not interested. It may take forever, but he'll get the picture sooner or later. But whatever you do, don't lie. That just makes it harder on YOU later.
2006-12-05 20:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Shugsmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that is what he is going to ask you before you say anything. You say, he is a nice person then suggest just being friends and nothing more. No need to hurt someones feelings just because you do not like them.
2006-12-05 20:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. You don't have to go into detail about why you are not interested in him, just tell him you don't want to be his girlfriend and that you want him to stop asking you to be his girl. Also tell him that if he can't accept the fact that you are not interested in him in that way...you will probably have to end the friendship as well.
2006-12-05 20:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if i were you i would give him a chance since he is a really nice guy. you are like me you go for the looks but look is not just it. Its what the look from the inside. Most of the guys who are cute/ hot are the one who cheat on the girls and then ones who care are the ones who don't cheat on people. so if I were you just give it a try and give him a chance.
2006-12-05 20:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by yessyred_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends if you are interested in his personality, likes and dislikes, if he likes you because he thinks thinks you're "hot" or something, there is no real substance to his personality and he is just an average guy. If he's sincere then you should at least give him A "mercy date" or kindly explain your reasons of uninterest.
2006-12-05 20:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Matt C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he starts to bring it up tell him you really like him as a friend but not as a boyfriend . Honesty is the best policy... Otherwise you will probably just hurt him even more.
2006-12-05 20:36:42 · answer #11 · answered by thedevilsdaydream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋