a guy called chris.he's really hurt from people playing around with him all the time and he's been treated really badly in the past. we got/ i think still are really close and i have other guy mates. when i put (L)(L)rich(L)(L) in my msn name( (L) means a heart) he thort i was coppin off with sum other guy and with rich, i was just joking around as we normally go like urghhh! i hate you! but he thort i literally meant it.When i took (L)(L)rich(L)(L) out of my name, rich thought that i didnt care for him as much as i cared for chris n i liked chris better. i wuz just tryna plz them both. my heart lies with rich tho and after me and rich were gettin on fine again but just now he said sumthin i cant remember what and then went 'no, im done now, cya kara' and just signed out. I keep saying how much he means to me but he just says he doesn't wana get hurt. i can't really put as much detail in as i would like but please.. ideas? loves xxx
2006-12-05 12:12:17 · 9 answers · asked by x_theblackparade_x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okok, easy. let me make things clear.
do you like Chris in any kinda way? if no, dun tryna please both of them, cuz u will give both of them wring ideas!
ok, rich said he doesnt wanna get hurt, tell him, you dont wanna get hurt too! who does?! but he is already hurting you by ignoring the fact that he does mean alot to you!
and i dont know what rich is like, but for me, i want like a girl just keep goin on and on and on and on about one thing. call him and get him out, look into his face, and tell him how you feel about him, dont be shy, because you may never get the chance to say it again!
he doesnt wanna get hurt? who says he will? but he needs to understand that you can also have close guys friends even you are with him! and of course vice versa fo him.
good luck and hope this help
heartless,
xxx
2006-12-05 12:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by heartless_916 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, you are bleeding the pangs of teenage yearning for love. Does it matter whether you end up with one or the other, this only goes to show you shouldn't play games with peoples emotions, its coming back to haunt you. It boils down to communication and if you really want to go out with this Chris guy you would have the heart to go and tell him your feelings. But dont go playing games and in all reality what does this matter its not the end of the world just be happy you have your health. Why waste your time being miserable over someone who probably doesnt even acknowledge you exist. Spend your time with people who care!!!
2006-12-05 20:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Gar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see where your coming from! i think someone is jealous. once you told chris you were only messing around with the msn name he sld have believed you so i can see he doesnt want to get hurt but he might be taking it a bit 2 far and if he keeps going that was he might lose you 4 ever u need totell him 2 stop worrying and not 2 be as jealous
2006-12-05 20:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I got bored halfway down the question
2006-12-07 12:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and have a big mac and a coke and flert with the idiots that work there.
2006-12-05 20:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will come back on again and you can try to explain again, then tell him its up to him how things go from there. you cant keep waiting and hoping, you have to move on with, or without him. if you mean anything to him, he will open up to you and trust you.
2006-12-05 20:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by skyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck with that
2006-12-05 20:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask God for answers. works w/ me
2006-12-05 20:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by amdb9ml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2006-12-05 20:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by nwenderlich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋