I bought me girlfriend a diamond bracelt for her birthday a couple months ago and she never wears it...does that mean she doesnt like it or is it just to fancy to wear everyday? SHould i ask her about it? How do i bring it up?
2006-12-05 12:08:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Honey, I noticed that you never wear the bracelet I got you. Is it too fancy for everyday or would you like to exchange it for something you prefer more. It won't hurt my feelings, I just want you to be happy."
2006-12-05 12:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real diamond bracelets are (in my opinion) too fancy to wear every day. Did she wear it right after you gave it to her for a bit? The other test would be to take her some place where you have to dress up a bit, if she pulls it out, then you will know it is just too fancy for the everyday; but she does enjoy the chance to wear it when she can.
kudos on the jewelry, girls tend to love the shiny things. :)
Don't ask her, She'll either lie to protect your feelings or feel obligated to wear it all the time. A less direct approach may work best.
2006-12-05 12:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by michele_green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the bracelet is beautiful, there are a lot of reasons she might not be wearing it. You're right, she might think its too fancy to wear everyday. She may feel that she only wants to wear it on special occassions. She may be afraid of wearing it too often because she doesn't want to lose it or damage it. The only way you'll know for sure is if you ask. Ask her to wear the bracelet to a special dinner... then do something smooth like taking her hand at the table (the one that she's wearing the bracelet on) and flirtatiously ask why you don't see the bracelet more often. Don't put on the pressure, just encourage her honesty with your understanding
2006-12-05 12:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by ~ Mi$fitPrin¢ess ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Its possible she might not like it all that much but who dosen't like diamonds. Diamonds are a girls best friend.
B. It is possible it is too fancy to wear in everyday life. She might not want some stranger to see it and then decide to steel it or her purse or something
C. If it bothers you that much you might want to consider asking her about it.
D. You can tell her that she loks really preatty today. And then say she'd look even more radiant with the bracelet. Then say "By the way I haven't seen you wearing it lately. What happenened to it.
Who knows, she might have lost it. Or it could be to big/small for her hand. Or she could be afraid to brake it.
Good Luck :-)
2006-12-05 12:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's diamonds. Unless she has an aversion specifically to diamonds then you're probably right, she is saving it for the right time. It's the holiday's so it's about that time for a nice dinner somewhere special. Treat her to one and see if she wears it. If she doesn't, say something like "Aww, I was hoping you'd wear that diamond bracelet tonight..". She should tell you then if she thinks it's atrocious or if she's saving it for something even more special like a wedding or something.
2006-12-05 12:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait to she if she wears it to a dance with you or some other fancy event.
I find that even if you manage to bring something like that up in conversation, she probably wouldn't want to hurt your feelings by saying she doesn't like it.
Her actions will convey the truth to you. So I'd say your best bet is to wait to see if she wears it on a fancy occasion.
2006-12-05 12:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if i got a diamond braclet for my birthday i wouldn't wear it all the time either i would be afraid that it might break or someone would try and take it! She may just be waiting for a specail occasion, but i would ask her about it anyways
2006-12-05 12:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean she doesn't like it. i rarely wore the necklace my ex gave me. i only wore it on special occasions like Valentines day or anniversary or if we went to a fancy restaurant. it had more to do with i only wanted to wear it when we were going somewhere special. if you wear it everyday it just seems like a watch. but it's not a watch its a braclet that is from someone special.
don't take it personally. just wait until you all go out somewhere special she just might be wearing.
2006-12-05 12:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf brought me somthing similar. i only wear it when im not working. which is not often.
she may just feel its too expensive to wear all the time and might fear getting mugged.
i no i do and wear v little jewllery.
she may feel uncomfortable if her friends dont wear similar things.
i personally dont like gold jewllery and my boyfriend has only ever brought 1 piece. he asked why i dont wear it and i told him straight. i prefer silver and find gold a bit 'common' (my personal opinion) as all the people i know wear all gold.
ask her why she hasnt worn it as you think it looks beutiful on her etc.
dont get upset by the answer she gives just remember we cant get it right every time!
2006-12-05 12:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that she doesn't like it or maybe she doesn't like to wear jewellry that much. If you want to know the truth then just ask her.
That's the only way to find out the real answer!!
2006-12-05 12:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by gundychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋