I wanna break up with this guy, but, I still wanna be friends, I just wanna be like, free, ya know, so, how do I do it without hurting his feelings?
2006-12-05 11:52:37 · 12 answers · asked by Lion_Luver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just broke up with him, he wont take it to well at school tomorrow
2006-12-05 16:48:33 · update #1
pretend like something happened in your personal life and say you need a break.. and then don't go back.
2006-12-05 11:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Spenzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't control what his feelings are going to be. However, well meaning people have said things like "Well I don't want something serious with you at this time." Wrong comment because it still emotionally ties them to you thinking that they have a chance in the future. The best way is honestly with no open endings and when you say friends make sure that he isn't trying something else. The best way is to say. " This relationship isn't working out for me." You are a nice person but I don't think that I am the one for you." I don't mind being friends but this means no ulterior motives on your part just friends.
2006-12-05 19:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres realli no way you can break up with him without hurting his feelings but it may take him a while to get over it then decide to be ur friend
2006-12-05 19:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by tellin him exactly what u just said. tell him that you relli don't want to hurt him but you just want to be friends. tell him that you want to be free for a little while and maybe one day that yall can get back together... tell him no hard feelins, but u just want some space... try that!! if it makes it worse... i'm sorry but that has worked for me!!! hollers!
2006-12-05 19:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by blabber_babe2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call and tell him. Trust me, you'll feel better.. i did this on Sunday and i feel oh soo free again! Just call and tell him. And no matter what he says, just break it off.
2006-12-05 19:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus say we need 2 tak,& b al like i wana get closer 2 God,& havin a bf is a real distraction,so i jus wanna b yo frnd rite now.
2006-12-05 19:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by anOnymOus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's too good for you, make it seem the relationship isnt working because of you not him and then tell him you just want to be friends. Always worked for me.
2006-12-05 19:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by nydiva28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say we been to gether to much and say we need to give eachether so space and get with a guy
2006-12-05 19:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by maxooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and express your feeling of friendship...maybe down the road your feelings will change for him.
2006-12-05 19:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. i had to do that, and i felt really bad about it, and he was really sad at first, but then it was ok. were still close friends.
but. i think he still likes me..ugh.
2006-12-05 19:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by rita_the_cheetah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋