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I have this wonderful boyfriend. there is nothing i would change about him. the thing i would change, is the girl who hangs around him like he's her's or something.
she hates me. shes his ex.. and he dumped her for me..now shes asking him if hes got a 6pack abs. It drives me insane
I can't shake the feeling I'll be the one left in the dark. Like she'll get him someday, even though hes convinced he's staying with me. How do I deal with this whore? and shake this feeling? No rude comments please =)

2006-12-05 11:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

You first need to explain to your boyfriend how you feel. I am guessing she is just trying to make you jealous, which she apparently is doing so. As hard as it maybe if you know your boyfriend is with you and not her, relax and do not let it bother you. She is 'feeding' off of your emotions, if you hide your feeling from her she will 'starve' in a sense and stop it. If she is not getting a reaction from you by her actions it is not worth the energy she puts forth .. good luck

2006-12-05 11:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by oracle 3 · 0 0

Obviously, this is really bothering you. And her behavior is quite inappropriate. Have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel. He needs to be making you the important one, now. If there where some guy that was crossing the line- even just a little - and it bothered him, would you be willing to make him go away for your boyfriend? He should be willing to do that for you. If he makes a big deal about it, there may be something more going on...

2006-12-05 11:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Shaken Not Stirred 4 · 0 0

You have to let your boyfriend know how you feel about it. That is none of her business what he does or doesn't have. Frankly, if he is allowing these questions without putting a stop to them himself, then you need to question him as well.

2006-12-05 11:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

How can we not reply with rude comments when you have called her a "whore" in your question? That's a bit unfair, you can be rude but the rest of us can't. Where's the justice?

2006-12-05 11:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0 1

troublesome situation relatively if her bf is your freind,and if she swaps so rapid she must be labelled a tart,you already know the way ppl are.purely enable her comprehend the way you sense and which you would be stable freinds and which you would be there for her if it dont artwork out,except somebody else catches your eye,which would be safer.

2016-10-04 22:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

The guy shouldn't be hanging around with an ex!!!

2006-12-05 11:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0 0

oooo this is a tough one. not alot of guys like being told who they can hang around with. if i had some advice i would give it. just try talkin to him about it

2006-12-05 11:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by yeah dude i rock! 1 · 0 0

UMM i hate when it starts with UMM .....means its never good ! Don't worry about your B/f im sure you give him whatever he wants and needs!

2006-12-05 11:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0 1

You have to ignore her or he has to tell her himself.

2006-12-05 11:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0 0

if he truly feels for you, why would he go back to another.

2006-12-05 11:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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