After going out I texted and called her a few times and got no response. Then suddenly a week later she responds and wants to chat and when i asked her why she didn't call, she didn't really have a reason. Am i just being strung along? What should i do. Ignore her?
2006-12-05 11:50:15 · 16 answers · asked by Ihtsb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See what happens, just don't too attached until you know what's going on.
2006-12-05 11:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by happyha31 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes people are just busy and sometimes girls need their space too. If I am dating a guy and I see that things are moving too fast between us I will back away a bit. Things may be moving to fast for her. Then again it could be nothing. Just chill out and take it one day at a time right now. Don't obsess about it and don't bother her 24/7. Just got with the flow right now and see what happens. Really the best way to avoid certain heartache is to not get attached too soon and take your time getting to know the other person without any pressure or expectations too early on.
2006-12-05 12:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you dated a few times, you were just dating, not in a relationship so you shouldn't really expect much at first. If you want to go out again, I think you should. But if you feel like she's stringing you along, then you don't need to say much more.
2006-12-05 11:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 04:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just busy or maybe she just wanted to focus on other things maybe even think about wether or not this is something she wants to do..but i do think she owes you an apology if she has'nt already done so..but I say keep an open mind, dont rush into it..we cant speculate what was going on so just take your time and date other people so that things like these wont faze you..and if she does it again..send her packing..
2006-12-05 11:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it cool man. When you're around her, act like you're doing her a favor by hanging out with her. This will give you confidence, which she will find to be a turn-on, and I bet she will want to hang out with you again. Go do something simple, like hangout in a park, or grab some coffee...make sure it is simple, but unique.
2006-12-05 12:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by michaelsmyth2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was worried. Has she recently been in a relationship that didn't work out. Maybe she was just being cautious or maybe she was busy. Good Luck:)
God Bless and Be Safe:)
2006-12-05 11:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ignore her. have a deep chat with her and ask her whats wrong. something may be bothering her, whether family or school-related, try to help her out
2006-12-05 11:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzycherrycream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she didnt bring it up why she didnt call you that means you shouldent mention it come on MAN she is not your girlfriend stop trying to control.women dont like that just take your time with her and respect her mayb one day you will get a kiss
2006-12-05 11:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many ppl who are bad with replying email, and call.
may be she is one of those. I know a girl who is like that, she calls when she feels like it and then she is gone for a wile and then she is back ...
give her another chance and see if she is like that or not
2006-12-05 11:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋