uncle sam wants u to answer my question so i dont go to a mad house again.?

Question

ok i never been to a mad house. any way!
y do people hate some one(me)if they never did anything wrong i mean my entier 5th grade hated me except 6 people even my one teacher hated me.*im sad* i am all alone in this world im not realy sure what to do.u know come to think of it i've even thought of killing my self and i guess it's thank to gabi panza and niki m. just because i love them i decided to stay around in live.and im in 7th grade to so thats realy strange.
well if any one knows them tell me that too plz. thx for your help.

Answer 1

It's always either 7th or 8th grade that is just the worst year of almost everyone's life. Those are the years that everyone starts getting mature (mentally) so remember that eventually most people will change. I was extremely annoying in 7th grade, and then 8th grade I kept to myself a lot, and looking back on those years (i'm not that much older than you f.y.i.), I'm glad they're over with. I'm not trying to give you the impression that life is going to get worse; if you hope for the better, knowing that people change and middle school can be really stupid/full of drama, they can. If you look at things in a positive light, you'll find that they turn out for the better. It's like going into a movie that you expect to be good and it turns out to be good verses going into a movie expecting it to be crappy and it meets your expectations. This can really apply to when you go to highschool: If you think about it in a "highschool is the worst time of everyone's life because there is so much competition and everyone's out to get each other" then highschool won't turn out very good (this is how my friend thought of it, and even though she has a lot of friends (she had an attitude problem in middle school) and she's getting good grades and everything, she's always told herself that highschool sucks and she isn't too happy with it). I tried to think that highschool is a chance to start over again and there are going to be a lot of new people, so I won't have my reputation completely following me around, and that highschool years are some of the best of your life, and even though I've had some problems with not seeing my friends very often and problems with grades and the stuff most people go through, I still like it.
Also, rather than thinking about the people you think hate you (and you can't always be 100% sure, I've thought people haven't liked me when it turns out they did before), just remember that you do have friends who care a lot about you. Nobody's life is perfect, even if it looks like it. I know a girl who so many people think she has the perfect life, but she has a really bad anxiety problem and she has a horrible relationship with her mother, and she's never been in a relationship (not because she rejects people) even though people constantly tell her how pretty she is, etc. Basically my point is that you shouldn't feel like everyone else is happier than you are (and I don't mean in comparison to starving/enslaved kids, because that way of thinking doesn't work). Try hoping for the best, and you never know, things might turn out a hell of a lot better than you ever expected them to. Last note, screw teachers. There are a lot of them out there that make people feel horrible. Whenever you have a teacher that seems to hate you, try acting as if you don't care rather than appearing like they're actualy having any affect on you. It pisses them off, and it's so much fun.
Good luck. :]

Answer 2

Awww honey...

7th grade sucks doesn't it?? Things will get better...

The title of your question was so funny and witty; you are intelligent and have a great sense of humor! Also, you come across as so loveable!! I really wish I could give you a big hug right now. You sound like a sensitive soul; people like you always have it tough at this age...

When you get a little bit older, people around you will appreciate your great qualities a whole lot more; that's the way it works... I think in college you are going to be very popular and have so much fun! I really get that feeling... Go to a college that has a diverse mix of students from all over; you will be popular. But things will get better before then...
As long as you have 1 or 2 good true friends that's all you really need...
Honey, things are going to get better, ok??

Answer 3

You are definitely proper to your resolution. Your son will develop up always feeling rejected. I received stuck among my mum or dad's divorce and my father simply to cancel on us at all times. I was once 7 and I can't let you know how difficult it was once to get via the ones couple of years. It is real terrible. When this field comes up amongst my peers (just lately break up from their kid's father), I continually inform them the identical factor: Because I lived via it, I truthfully consider it could were greater to not see him in any respect than to have the emotions of being allow down, rejected, and undesirable (even though it wasn't that as a rule. He'd do it approximately as soon as a month, he was once think to look me very Sunday). But that when a month he ignored, made the opposite three Sundays nugatory since he was once on no account precise to his phrase. Good Luck with the predicament. When your son is historic sufficient to realise the style of pop he has, you could desire to give an explanation for it to him, so he would possibly not consider such as you took his father away. If his father relatively desires to look him, such as you mentioned, he's going to uncover a method via courtroom for visitation rights. "Where there is a will, there is a approach" It he manages to reduce to rubble his visitation rights, you'll then have them eliminated for well. Here's to hoping the whole thing works out to your household.

Answer 4

Growing up is hell. We do it our whole lives and some people never find all the answers they want. But it's through all the **** that we learn little bits of truth about ourselves, life, and everyone else. Stay strong.

Finding out who you are is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. But don't eve settle for anything less that what makes you happy.

When I was in gradeschool (im a senior in highschool now) people hated me. I'm not lying. I was annoying, defensive and bitchy. Somehow through all of that I gained a couple of close friends. It may take awhile for you to feel comfortable being yourself. Just keep in mind (even though this is chiche') that people who pick on others and the popular kids are just as stressed out and insecure as everyone else, maybe even moreso.

Good Luck

Answer 5

Sad world isn't it? I am 33 years old, I remember back as a young teen, I was so un-popular, everyone bullied me, my sisters and brother picked on me and I was ALWAYS the blame of everything that went wrong. Now that I'm older, I realize life wasn't so bad growing up. At that moment I thought it was, now that I see what I have accomplished in life, and my beautiful family I have now, I'm glad I stuck around to see it! Hang in there kid, be strong, believe in yourself! If this didn't help, I hope it atleast made you smile or something, happy holidays to you and a big hug, sounds like you need one!

Answer 6

Dude, nothing is bad enough to kill yourself. Honestly, a LOT of people have thought of it. And you will get through it, especially if it is just other people and what they think of you. You will soon not care, trust me... u have Internet and even though I'm a faceless caring person, at least I'm caring enough to be here on this site. You must care enough for your friends to stick around. I stuck around for my parents. See that sounds worse and i didn't have Internet then. Again, just hang in there, it really does get better, i would even suspect that you may get better before ur out of school.. it took me a bit longer... but i did. Take comfort in your friendships you have, and always be looking to make more friends who are worthy of you company/friendship.

Answer 7

People don't understand especially when that young. Are you part of any support group? I doubt you are as alone as you feel....but I know what it is like to feel that way. ((hugs))