Because this is also the little sister of my best friend of 20 years. She is like 24 and has this hang up about me. I mean to me it seems as if she is scared to get into a relationship because of the way her last relationship ended which was very ugly. I finally realized just recently that she is the one I think I want to grow old with in life. The person I see standing beside me the rest of my life. Please Help...
2006-12-05 11:44:11 · 15 answers · asked by c_shappley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You express yourself so honestly and sincerely that, if you speak to her in this way, she is bound to be won over. Maybe don't be quite so intense at first, though ...
2006-12-05 11:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't be scare because she is scare that doesn't mean you should...Start like with a question this simple...How she thinks about if she one day will be in a good relationship and go from there if she negative about been in one then she might reject you when you tell her that you Love her...Some people take a longer time to heal about bad relationship in their past....
2006-12-05 11:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her exactly what you wrote in your description above. You know, about wanting to grow old with her and wanting her beside you. Take a chance and just speak from your heart. Life is too short so you should embrace every chance at happiness.
2006-12-05 11:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that actions speak louder than words. Because of the situation with her being your BF sister I would definitely take it slow you don't want to jeopardize your friendship if this doesn't work out. You might also want to try talking with your friend to hear his opinion on the situation to see if he is open to it. He knows you well and he may or may not have some concerns about you and his baby sister
2006-12-05 11:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by REDD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her what you told us... You understand that she has her baggage... but you are willing to work with her on it. You love her, you want to grow old with her. Honesty is best. Patience will go a long way too.
2006-12-05 11:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, life is too short not to tell someone that you love them. Tell her that you don't expect her to feel the same, but that you want her to know. She may feel the same way, but just doesn't know it yet.
2006-12-05 12:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by broken heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest...tell her how u feel...
but be very gentle with her..because she may not be able to trust again since she just recently got hurt...
but maybe u are what she needs in her life..
a good man..
2006-12-05 11:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be truthful, but maybe wait a while until she is more comfortable with the thought of dating you to tell her, you dont want her to back out of it before anything gets started.
2006-12-05 11:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww...thats the cutest thing ever! u shud first ask ur best friend about her, cuz no matter wat he noes where she stands better than u, since hes a long lasting bf, hell be very honest and sincere. if he disagrees, it mite be that hes scared his friendship with u will change. good luck telling her!
2006-12-05 11:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by PreTty in PiNk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps just like you put it here. Age is not an issue if your feelings are true.
2006-12-05 11:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋