How do you get a girl out of ur head??

Question

I have asked this question before but the answers were rubbish. I have fillings for this girl, but she doesn't feel the same way (i know this although not asking her) and we can never be more than friends. So how do i get her out of my head, i think about her all the time. Last time i asked this everyone siad talk to her, she might feel the same way, just trust me this is not the case. SO COULD ANSWERS NOT SAY TALK TO HER ANOUT UR FEELINGS, PLEASE JUST TELL ME HOW I CAN GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE, THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I was in the same situation one time.

You'll get over her, it's a psychological thing, the primary purpose of love is to make people so crazy about eachother that they're willing to do something they would NEVER normally do (i.e have a baby and move in togeather), if somebody rejects you, you have no reason to love them since you'll never mate thus defeating the initial purpose of love and eventually your hormone and enzyme levels go back to normal and you get over the person. Eaither you don't fully accept the rejection or you do and are in that period of denial that manifests through emotional distress.

There are several ways to get over it; termination (securing once and for all she doesn't like you), transference (you find somebody else to think about all the time), or just gradually getting over it (this is the painful way).

Since you SAY you know she doesn't like you but you don't KNOW she doesn't like you it's probably the first (but I don't know you so I could be wrong). The best way to make sure she doesn't like you is to ask her, even if you know she doesn't like you, it'll help you get over her.

If you truly think you know she doesn't like you then you're just suffering from emotional distress, the best thing to do is to find something to do like a hobby or an interesting TV show and just wait until it blows over. I thought I was crazy in love with this girl and couldn't get her out of my head and I'd think about her for hours at a time even though I was 99% sure she didn't like me. I finally asked her, she rejected me and I was over her in a week at most, I still have feelings for her but I don't think about her at all really anymore.

Sorry for the psychobabble but I'm a man who likes explanations for everything, simply loving for no other reason than that person is just amazing and you must be with them doesn't suit me, although I am in love right now and it certainly seems that way in a deeper psychological sense I know it isn't.

Answer 2

Try to setingt ur mind elsewhere, find out sumthing that interests you, like a hobby or sumthing. Or maybe, u should look for someone else, do u like anyone else? Try.. not thinking about her, indulge ur self with work. Hope it helped. Sorry if It doesn't.

Answer 3

The answers are rubbish because there is no effing perfect answer...this is something each adult, in the light of their own circumstances and experience, has to learn to do on their own!
Grow up!

Answer 4

If she doesn't want to be with you in that way, why would you want to be with her? There are plenty of other girls out there and you don't need to settle for someone that doesn't like you in that way. If you start talking to other girls, you will eventually forget about her and you'll develop a liking for someone else- it worked for me!

Answer 5

Replace the thoughts in your head with lots and lots of whisky.

Answer 6

why dont you try talking to other girls, some girls that you dont really know, because that way you will be thinking about them and you never know, you might start to like one of them.